I guess that's why people needs to learn what real role play or BDSM is . It's all about consent. I repeat CONCENT. In real life the SUBMISSIVE ARE THE ONE'S IN CONTROL. THEY'LL give the dominant one's the authority/concent /permission first, then they can continue their foreplay or things. That is how it is done. Because otherwise it's literally abuse to just force someone into submission.
I'm so tired of how all forms of media miss-represent the whole BDSM. What they're portraying is abuse and potential rape.
I never called it BDSM, buy... Secondly, while we can surely call it molesting, it was no rape. It was literally just a massage. When black Wolfgang refuses to yeild until the end, Sys withdraws pretty gracefully. He does a bit of aftercare as an apology but it's literally never portrayed as a BDSM relationship... Simply Sys being his usual asshole self.
Lastly, dom in this case refers to a dominant personality. Not everything has to be taken at face, some words have a lot of other normal meanings than porn-related, no matter what internet or ur dirty mind says.
You probably should learn how to specify your words then. We are literally were in a chapter where everything was pointing towards something sexual. And the way Sys was acting can very well indicate he is a Dom. And although it's not mutually exclusive, a person who has a dominant personality, tend to be a dom during sex. So you really should've been specific if you didn't wanted to be misunderstood and get so butt hurt about said misunderstanding.
I was simply trying to clear things out, since so many people tend to misunderstand BDSM due to the way it's being portraied.
But didn't realize you're a very young and immature person, who thinks sex=porn? Didn't realize that you can't digest actual sex-ed. Guess your pure mind can only handle Yaoi and fantasize over it. Stay pure child, but don't stay ignorent. And try to accept your mistake,when you make one, instead of jumping gun on others. Bye.
I hoped they would get to know each other better in other ways than just drugging him up and molesting