Responses
I get all of this and you’re right but for a relationship that’s lasted for 8 years the development and lack of communication is just ridiculous and unbelievable. For the sake of the plot sure. But this isn’t believable in the slightest that a 8 year would be tossed out the window with never once expressing insecurities present in their relationship. Let alone to give not even a hint of an explanation, and begin sleeping with your ex’s superior. If you even knew someone capable of this stupidity and passive aggressiveness I’d say you were better off without them to begin with.
Doesn't seem like anyone's interested in knowing what jeong is feeling whatsoever. You're in a relationship for 8 years. When you confessed the other party's response was... Okay we can try... Just coz we've been friends for so long why not... No clear i love you too and yes I'd love to date you.. You're obviously are going to feel insecure all the time.. That's normal... Lack of communication is a major issue.. But not just because of jeong alone.. Try imagining yourself in a relationship where you never once felt loved. Where you never once felt needed... Instead you felt like you were a burden on your partner. That psychologically damages you on many levels. I'm not saying kangwoo didn't love him.. He had his own form of love for jeong... But his love wasn't enough to keep jeong happy.. There are time when one partner feels like they're giving more to the relationship and not receiving as much... If you're not happy in a relationship i dont see why you have to continue being with them...
I'm no relationship expert but i can tell what's wrong with their relationship... Kangwoo was never once vocal about his relationship.. He never once showed affection in public.. He always felt scared of anyone finding out... Does anyone realise how jeong must've felt... What I can gather from this comment section is that... Everyone just hates jeong.
Did he move on too quick yes.. He should have given himself more time to heal.. But when you've gotten out of a relationship where you were unhappy af... And suddenly there's this person who makes you feel everything you've wanted from a relationship its hard to pass.
Gyutae isn't all for sex either... I can tell. He liked him.. But if someone doesn't really love you but wants to just use you for sex... You do become a bit salty.. His fault was actually having sex with him right away.. He should've waited.. Comforted him.. Made jeong fall in love with him.. Right now. Jeong feels happy with gyutae only because he's getting what he wants and the painful memories from his relationship with kangwoo seems to be fading..
I have not read the raws i don't know how this ends.. But i do understand what the author is trying to tell.
Sorry for this.. I just felt too bad for jeong after reading the comments. Felt the need to defend the poor bastard. Lol ╮(￣▽￣)╭