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I think many are angry because he didn't give Kangwoon (?) An explanation for the break up. 8 years of dating/living together is a lot and without any reason given its hard to understand. I want to ... How can I say it? Minimize your experience, tho? I can understand both sides, but leaving without explanation is kinda hurtful for the other party
Yeah, it has to suck to be in a relationship with someone who won’t acknowledge you in public. I felt bad at first but now I get it. It’s demoralizing to love someone more than they love you. To be honest, I’m still with my guy for 15 years now, but the first 7-9 were horrible often, because he didn’t know how to treat me right, now things are settled, I guess we’re not 100% happy, but I had to decide to love myself more than him in order to survive. Funny because now he finally understands that he destroyed what could have been a fairytale but it’s too late, I can’t ever love anyone that deeply again.
I can easily imagine that someone else might decide to leave rather than stay. I’m nothing like what I used to be. Staying has left me pretty broken in a lot of ways. Even if it’s gotten better, I could have left and been perfectly justified. I don;t blame this guy for leaving. What good are you if you’re that unhappy with someone?