I see a lot of people angry with the uke for saying he liked him "perfect" but tbh that is...

Reylla April 20, 2020 6:10 pm

I see a lot of people angry with the uke for saying he liked him "perfect" but tbh that is normal behavior? Most people who begin dating too quickly fall in love with an idealized version of their partners, someone who is flawless and perfect just for them. That was the uke's case too. Problem is that, as their relationship progressed, he realized NOT that the seme wasn't perfect, but that they were stuck in the same place and he wasn't really getting to know his lover.
I love the seme and really hope he gets better, but honestly it's not the uke's job to "save" him. He must open up himself, instead of waiting to be forced by someone.
Hope they get together soon~

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    JonChi April 20, 2020 7:34 pm

    I agree!! And I don't think that the uke meant the same kind of "perfect" that the seme thought it meant. Like tbh, the uke only said that after looking at the seme's face and I think the uke meant it more like a "because you're hot" kind of perfect?? dhcdcnhnchjnvhfu either ways I need NEED someone to tell the seme that he's okay the way he is bc I don't want him to be hurt anymore ;;;

    CrabMelon April 20, 2020 7:36 pm
    I agree!! And I don't think that the uke meant the same kind of "perfect" that the seme thought it meant. Like tbh, the uke only said that after looking at the seme's face and I think the uke meant it more like... JonChi

    Exactly! And most people would love hearing that theyre perfect from their SO. It's not the uke's fault he didn't know seme's tragic backstory tm!

    Boterfly April 20, 2020 7:41 pm

    I agree as well! Also I think its kinda important to realize that they have broken up for some time now. And even though they did not leave things badly, they did not leave things good either. There is a lot of unreleased stress, miscommunication and lack of trust between them. If I had broken up with my ex like that I would probably react the same. Try to act normal and friendly, but I would not be ready to be pulled back into that rollercoaster of uncertainty abd emotions. The beeping brought back a lot of bad memories for them so its natural they reacted like that. They would probably resolve it with proper communication, but in all seriousness it fucking hard to sit down with someone like that. Lol

    Well aside from that, they deserve the world tho. Hahah I just want them to resolve the issues and be happy ^.^