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I agree about feeling sad for the seme, but I think you're being to harsh on the uke. When they were dating, he was always shown the mask (and abandoned at pretty bad times) and telling someone they are perfect usually is a compliment, there was no way of knowing it was his trauma.
That's why I said the uke is kinda a jerk. But I get where you're coming from.
I feel so sad for the seme honestly. I hope things gets better between him and the uke :( even tho the uke is kinda a jerk