Its kinda toxic to go about it that way. You interpret tears as weapons, but emotions are real some people are just super emotional. I started reading those villainess and reborn cnovels and im getting tired of tears being associated with fakeness and weakness, my moral principles got skewered by those villainess stories( you can read about habits of toxic people, it helped me and brought me insight on that). I noticed that this quote applies to pretty much all villainess stories “People who only think about people who are doing better than themselves are just losers that blame others for their own problems.” Instead of blaming the og heroines for everything why cant they use their big brains to realize that the first place they got into such situations is simply because of their actions but then they seem to forget that and just attribute every bad thing that has happened to them to “Destiny/ fate as a poor villainess” then they seamlessly tear and bring the og heroine down. They had such miserable fates bc of their behavior. Gaslighting, being passive agresssive, lacking empathy, blame others for their downfall and issues, think their always right, they are judgmental and all of that yet they still act all righteous, innocent and are always actually the victim cause the evil heroine took away all their things from them. The villainess deserves good while heroine has to eat shit.
Wow, a great insight indeed.. Yes, I did say she used her tears as her weapon but I didn't ask her to stop crying at all cause or stop letting her tears out or even stop letting her emotions get all over her.. All I've said is to hold it when she's in front of others and do it later when she's alone.. But seriously, you should know that tears that are purposely /unnecessarily shown in front of others do somehow mean weakness.. And they wouldn't do it if they didn't really want to show it.. Strong people don't cry out loud in public.. Or should I say, strong people won't let others who don't know them see them cry.. So, yeah.. And looking at the reason she cried at first, I was like, oh, come on.. What a simple reason to cry over.. I don't know.. Maybe I'm just a heartless bastard for saying all these... Or a toxic person as you would say, but yeah.. Different people have different opinion and I'm glad to know yours..
Why does she have to do it when she's alone??? bruh, are you listening to yourself? ''Strong people don't let others see them cry" thats absolutely ridiculous. Crying is not a bad thing, crying does not mean being weak. If that's what you really think then I really hope you reevaluate those thoughts.
You don't know what others are going through or have gone through, you don't know how their day was. Maybe they were miserable that day, maybe theyre under a shit ton of stress, maybe a relative died, you don't know. Everyone has their different circumstances, something like a stranger yelling could be a trigger for people who have some past trauma, whatever,.... different people can take different amounts of shit and that amount also varies day to day.
Keeping it in and not showing emotions, having to supress yourself is just plain unhealthy and I hope youll realize this
Yup! Glad we had a normal convo. I think being not scared of expressing yourself is very strong and brave in my opinion. Holding back tears is very hard, there are methods to stop crying like with harming yourself to distract yourself from crying but you see its just gonna grow into a bigger problem if you just keep everything inside.
you cannot just magically turn off your tears. We also shouldn’t assume that someone is crying to just get a girls/guys attention.
In irl its less likely to meet a pathological liar, sociopath or someone extremely manipulative with only schemes on their minds.
Like imagine irl someone is crying in front of you and you're like “maybe she thinks that if she acts all weak and helpless she’ll be able to attract the attention of guys” or like “wow that white lotus, trying to attract my bfs attention by getting into the ER”
Aka invalidating people’s emotions and trying to bring them down.
I like school life shoujo bc its simple and wholesome and like so precious haha( kinda cringy sometimes). And like not everything has to be resolved in someones downfall or snatching or getting in the way of someone’s success aka supporting female turns over a new leaf finds a good guy and becomes friends with mc or moves on and has good life.
I kind of cringed a bit in the 1st chapter when Urara cried after Senpai helped her from falling off the stairs and I even thought of ditching this manga at that moment, but then I was like, yeah, what's the harm in continuing when Aiji-kun is such an eye candy..hehe.. Oh yeah, and Urara's cry, I might understand why Jun-kun would get annoyed and warned her that much..haha.. She seems like she's using her tears as her weapon and I don't like it.. I get that you are so happy and grateful to finally meet your crush again, but deng girl, the tears is unnecessary, okay.. You should hold it and cry in your bedroom later, okay.. And as others said Jun-kun might do that because he likes Aiji-kun, I also actually don't like such thing..haha.. If you like your childhood friend, you should be fine with whoever he dated and if he's happy, you'd be happy too, right? And maybe he'll finally like you back after all supports you've given him..haha.. Okay2.. But after a few chapters, I understand Jun-kun's purpose and he's proven 'straight' and all he wants is his childhood friend be with a good girl and at the same time innocently unknowing that he himself has started to fall for the same girl.. That accidental kiss under the table, I was like, awwhhhhhh.. So, cute... Jun-kun!! And events after that which show how gentle he is...awwhhh.. I do hope he ended up with Urara but yeah, Urara, please don't cry too much.. I get annoyed, you know.. Be tougher, show your girl's power with no tears.. Only cry when no one sees you..haha..
P/s: Hi, just a fujoshi that get too bored and suddenly kind of missing my shoujo days, here..hahaha.. And yes, this might be the reason I get annoyed with Urara's cry.. It's my 1st time reading shoujo again after 5 years, I think.. And crying is what bitches do in yaoi mangas in order to be noticed by the MC and snatch him away from his sincere male lover.. Been too drown in Yaoi for as much as I know and I suddenly feels like reading shoujo again.. I read shoujo in my school days and accidentally fell into yaoi's heaven in my university's days and been reading yaoi since then..haha.. But this manga gets interesting tho.. I want to see Jun-kun ends with Urara.. I'm considering reading other mangas from the author and I hope they're good too..hehe..