Same here! Haha
I'm kinda uneasy with real life gay couples but I'm an avid bl fan, a big contradiction but doesn't really matter to me. Real life and manga world are separate things haha
Same here!! I thought I was the only one
Probably in denial or something.
Why is it weird to see homosexual couples express themselves? It's really the same thing as straight couples. And it's really sad that other countries don't allow homosexual expressions (like Russia). Another thing worth mentioning is that while Kim Kardashian is having her NEXT wedding, homosexuals are still struggling to fight for the same right, whereas the Kardashian hoe barely lasts a "fateful" and "pure" marriage to build a bonding relationship. I'm not saying that your opinions don't matter, just that it does take time to accept certain matters. Don't worry too much about it, if you're reading yaoi, then it's obvious you accept homosexuality. And how you're "uncomfortable seeing them in real life", I feel that way with all couples' expressions (like making out and stuff), whether homosexual or straight, sometimes it's just annoying lol.
may be it is the display of affection that bothers you, do you feel the same way when you see hetro couple? PPL are not comfortable seeing open displays of affection btwn others.
There's nothing wrong with that, there's a difference between reality and mangas haha so it's okay. Cause I mean I like yaoi and the sex scenes but when I see real life gay porn I just feel really uncomfortable
I love yaoi, but hate gay porn. Yes, there's a difference between real world and manga world. BTW, I feel equally disgusted with people, gay or straight, taking out their sex life from the bedrooms to the "streets." There's a popular news website in my country, where on a daily basis you can read along the main news about an orals, bedroom positions or on the pros of betrays of partners. As I said, disgusting!
gay-porn isnt the same as manga, I dont like all kind of porn but it doesnt disgust me that much, I just dont like it! I dont like any couple sucking aka french kissing public, I just look away but it has nothing to do with sexuality. and since I become yaoi-fan I do like watching/seeing gays around..its like from fantasy to rl lol :-p so u should find out why u feel that way.... I really cant understand pple who says, they like reading yaoi and with sex-scene blah blah but dont accept rl gays!!! its double standard!!
In my opinion, Yaoi is not porn. To be honest, I hate porn and I have to agree with the second Anonymous. Keep your sex life private people, straight or bi. I don't wanna see you kissing in the hallway or in public.
Don't worry, I'm the same. And here I thought I was the only one. Thanks for voicing out! But I'm guessing it's because real life gay couples aren't as hot and handsome as yaoi manga characters so that's why it also feels different. I mean, most of the gay couples are slightly feminine in gestures and features as opposed to the cool and masculine image from yaoi characters. Right? That's what I think.
I forgot to add straight, bi or gay. And my opinion stands, keep your sexual life private. Just because your straight doesn't give you an excuse to make out on a bench and the same goes if you're bi/gay. Show some respect.
When i see 2 friends(boys) are together, i will ship them but i can never ever imagine them having sex...unless they look like a celebrity...I find hetero slightly disgusting and when i see a couple fight i'm like....HAHAHA in my mind but to respect them i don't laugh loudly....i think yours is because on how society treats gay like shit and you subconsciously will act the same way in order to be normal. Since Yaoi manga is not reality, you are not trapped by the rules of society
Manga world is more beautiful than the real one. I like yaoi manga but I can't stand gay porn, it ruins all yaoi image.
@ I am a bi, why do u find hetero disgusting? thats really weird @.@ so u find ur mom and dad or sibling disgusting wtf!!
@WTF
I said slightly...cause i dislike females...not all but only some....i think i used the wrong word here...i find it weird....i think its because males are usually at the losing end in a relationship...I'm a female btw and i don't really like myself
Real life porn, whether gay or straight, makes me uncomfortable. But then so does real life violence. I can read about fictionalized sex/violence, but in real life, it's well, real people are involved. But in real life public displays of affection should be kept on the mild side, as that is something that should be personal. It just means that you are not a voyeur.
ahahaha you dont need to do any thing! really. just like when you like to read shoujo, but in reality you're asexual... yeah... something like that... ANYWAYS, u r not the only 1
@ I am a bi, ooh ok well, I dont like some girls too, they annoying!! but if u say Hetero, then we wouldnt be here lol :-P
Now I feel like my perverseness is another level higher than you guys. -.- I'm in love with yaoi and I do revere the love between two guys, not disgusting nor weird. I mean love don't take any form but it's really kind of uncomfy to see ANY couple making out in public. I live in a pretty conservative country (we don't have divorce here, imagine how uptight and how we value the teachings of the Church) so I guess it goes with my opinion on how I feel seeing people display their affection for each other. Simple kisses and hugs are very acceptable but French/deep kiss isn't just the norm. Some will just shrug their shoulders on those scenes but people should also be aware of their surroundings and not all about their feelings. But then again I'm a pervert and I watch gay porn sometimes when I feel like it.
Manga is entirely different from the real world, maybe because we know it's only a product of imagination and as much as graphical a scene may look, it's still 'unreal'. While looking at real homo couple might bring uneasiness for those people have feelings and it's not really common to see them often (at least on my place). Continue reading Yaoi as Yaoi is love. ^^
I expect pple to be open minded towards gays, since they read yaoi, come on, why would u read yaoi day in and day out , if u cant learn from it. Fiction is seeking how she could change her uneasiness and as long pple know that something isnt ok, then I dont have anything to complain about. a quick kiss and hugs is ok in public, but when they take that to the next level..its just disgusting..they should get a room, and it doesnt matter if they straights or gays.
before I started reading yaoi I didnt had any thought on gays... I jst didnt care..I didnt like those loud ones ofcoures but that had nothing to do with their sexuality. Im a whole new person today and I accept all, even she-males :P and I got 2 gay friends, they mega cool pple :-)
same here
I dont know whats wrong with me... maybe im sick or crazy. Well, Actually i dont like homo (im not a homophob) but it feels uneasy to see them in real life. Though i dislike it but still, i read a lot of yaoi mangas and i cant stop myself to read it. It sounds contradiction. So what should i do here? sorry to distrub you guys. Thanks in advance