It depends on the culture and faith but a lot of people have sex before getting married.
As Devil said, depends on culture and faith. I live in the Philippines, and personally speaking, sexual compatibility is very important to me. I don't want to marry someone and find out later that we don't mesh well in bed. I have many Catholic friends who waited to have sex until after marriage; whilst most of them are doing ok, some have had affairs or are experience a 'dead bedroom' situation since their sexual needs aren't being met.
Not really fair to call out Japanese.. I think even if a culture doesn't approve, there are still many people in every culture that have sex before marriage. But this is fiction erotica, it's not a documentary.
you do know you're reading smut right? This is not how people behave, it's a fantasy, please don't be reading these as indications of how to start a relationship Also when the girl says "no" it's no, not "oh but your body is reacting you must want it" no, it's "no" pal, back off!! Honestly I wish they'd change that part it makes it harder to enjoy when it feels slightly rape-y... There are so few where the girl is actually into it from the start, and those are the best ones...
Amen to that
Actually the entire europe,usa and japan/china/korea/australia has sex since they are 17 or 18 years old lol. Why is sexual activities weird? If your country withholds a certain tradition,its ok,but the rest of the world,well,most of the planet has sex freely. My parents in fact had their marriage the same day as my christian orthodox baptism,and is a trend here nowadays to do that,and an even happier day for the couple. I dream that i will do that as well
Could easily say it's "weird" to expect people to get married first. Almost no one in my country, the UK, gets married before sex. There's a world to explore, and you need to see if you're sexually compatible before marriage. Imagine marrying someone and then finding out that you don't have good intimacy. Massive waste of time.
Imagine martying someone only to find out on the wedding night he has a tiny dickmy nightmare that i wont let that happen
Or even more generally... imagine marrying him and then finding out you're repulsed by his body. It's just a catastrophic idea lol
Do ppl always having free sex like this? Japanese is weird. Idk bout other countries but in asian countries its really un-proper. GET MARRY FIRST DEYY (╯°Д °)╯╧╧