I totally agree with you..... Being abused is not something you should be shameful of.... Especially the victims..... (▰˘◡˘▰)
That also could be said to the victim of sexual assault or harassment. It's really sickening when the victim finally having the courage to report it and get bullied by society instead, and it happens every damn time,' Why are you you drying out your dirty laundry in the public? Don't you feel ashamed? Why don't you report it the first time it happened, you must enjoy it huh? Are you trying to gain easy money by reporting it? fame hoe! It make me lose faith in humanity when I read such comment.
True, and victims of harassment are usually criticized saying “you wouldn’t have been harassed if you wore more modest clothing” . It’s disgusting. Plus, when people report that they are being harassed more often than not police don’t take them seriously and other people ridicule the victim more. That ain’t fair cuz they’re not at fault .
But honestly tho, Leslie said something REALLY important -“ why should the victim feel embarrassed about it?”
And that’s true , abuse is not something to feel embarrassed about, nor ashamed because your scars show your strength. The abused should NEVER be at fault . It’s the abusers fault , he/she are the ones who should feel ashamed and embarrassed for preying on a weaker or younger person.