I actually agree with this. Chapter 51 felt especially unsettling, when Esau dragged Hosoo away and pushed him in the car, all because of what? He was just having a normal conversation. And I had hope that Hosoo would adress this but he just proceeded to say "Oh! He's just like me! I too only want him to look at me, only speak to me." Like sir what? At this point anyone from the general public who so much as glances at them is seen as a threat. Love shouldn't be obsessive, it should be built on trust. I hope they realise that cuz this story is so good and I'd hate for their relationship to spiral into something toxic :(
THISSSSS
THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT
Like, he was literally doing NOTHING wrong, he was just talking with people with no second interest so I found it rather upsetting.
I've been through something similar where my ex boyfriend would get angry at me because I was greeting my male classmates in the morning (I mean, that's what a polite person does when they walk in a room..?) but never once I thought "omg I can relate so much I love the way he's being overprotective!".
No. I hated that. I was madly jealous too (bc he purposefully used to do things to make me it) but I always tried not to lash out on him for normal things like greeting people or being bubbly and chatty with everyone.
Fuck it, that's not a good thing to show to the readers.
There are people who might think this is a normal behavior when being jealous but this is clearly NOT.
I get the jealousy, I think it's pretty normal, but this is mere obsession, abusive behaviors and nothing more.
I don't like how this is going and I hope the author does something about it..
They literally said that they cant have normal relationships cause of their upbringing, I totally understand. They're f**ked in the head and they know it and accept it. Like if you cant trust the person who birthed you why would you trust anyone else....
I'm sorry you had to go through that dear :((( people seem to forget that even within relationships there are lines you can't cross, you can't prevent your partner from socialising with others and keep them away from everyone like some bird in a cage, like thats just not right. And yes I 100% agree with you, while jealousy is completely normal, it shouldn't be a reason for wanting to lock your lover away from the rest of the world. I hope the author gives the characters a chance to develop their relationship for the better.
i dont know, they seem healthier and happier being together. Have you forgotten what Esau was like before? He was emotionless and empty. He would break down easier. Hosoo is a strong person, and i think that has influenced Esau to become stronger.
Do they have their hangups from their messed up past? Sure. Thats going to take time to go away. Esau is insecure because Hosoo left him before. They are both better now than they were in the beginning of the manga, which shows they are a positive influence for each other.
I agree with what you said 100% but I just can't help but feel like Esau is going a little overboard with the whole " I want to lock you up so only i can see you and speak to you" granted maybe he means that in a protective sense and doesn't want Hosoo to get hurt by the world around him but it just feel a bit overbearing to me. Hosoo also said that he feels like Esau doesn't fully trust him yet so maybe this will change over time. Tbh i just want their relationship to be healthy
True, I think with the mother gone it has defienitely helped Esau heal and become more stable, even somewhat taking the path of improving the relationship with his younger brother. And yes he probably is still anxious that Hosoo might leave him again so that could be why he is extra protective. I think both of them have grown in a sense and once that crazy step father is out of the picture they can truly relax and take their relationship in a better direction
But... Hosoo basically said the same thing. And of course Esau would be wary, when he finally did trust Hosoo he left him so he's always on edge thinking *this might be the last time I see him* especially with this accident, it triggers him even more. You know?
I dont think this relationship will be as healthy but its lovely in it's own way.
That's what I meant.
And yeah, okay, they're messed up in the head because of their past but that's most definitely NOT an excuse to act like an obsessive person.
I get it, it's difficult to get out of bad behaviors but if you're actually willing to change it -like you are actually aware that what you're doing is wrong and you're proactively trying to fix it- you'll TRY to fix it. You talk things through, ask your partner to work it out together and maybe ask for professional help. Esau knows he has issues because of his past but seems like he's using this as an excuse to be manipulative just like everyone has done in his life up until that point.
I really hope they'll get healthier in the future.
I get abandonment issues are hard to deal with, but I hate that he's willingly shielding himself with it.
Mental issues are not an excuse for shitty behaviors.
Oooh ok so you know how Esau was an emotionless person basically a robot idol and now all these emotions just burst into him, reading your comment blew my mind into thinking that he might just be able to control these emotions that he's never felt before. So.... causing this unstable behavior.
Also, "mental issues are not an excuse for shitty behaviors" yes agree except ppl with mental issues wont understand that cause that's not how their brain works. Therefore having mental issues.
Okay, you're actually right because i was too caught up commenting the story from an external point of you. I get what you mean and you're totally right.
I'm probably more shocked by Hosoo's way of reacting to this.
I just hope they'll seek for help one way or another in a way that won't destroy them both by hurting each other more and more because of their acting.
I hope someone will take care of them as an external people looking at their scenery and making them notice their mistakes.
I really hope so.
That would be a nice way to treat the topic in a comic..
There are 56 chapters and 3 extras. So 59 chapters
I agree
Oh.
So basically that's how it's gonna end? Is it complete?
Well we are on chapter 53. So 6 more chapters. By like To take an enemy’s heart the last three are extras.
https://toonkor.ch/미치기-좋은-날
I mean, I hate how toxic this is getting. None of the relationships here are healthy. I keep getting goosebumps every single time Esau puts up an act of jealousy, I feel like suffocating. Prolly bc i lived those moments in real life and I now know how a toxic relationship works, but I keep wanting to scream at them to run away as soon and as far away as possible but they just bash in toxic behaviors as if it were a pool of roses water.
I dontdon't get why healthy relationships are not even considered worthy of being depicted in a comic. I really can't stand how toxic relationships are considered like a standard and normal way to do things as if there was no other way to show love.
Meh, i just hope this will end soon cause now I wanna see the end of it and can't drop this after 53 chapters but hey, I'm not fond of their ways.