Sorry but I hate the idea of using a girl to hide sexuality. I mean I know this is a gay m...

Asamilee February 27, 2020 10:52 pm

Sorry but I hate the idea of using a girl to hide sexuality. I mean I know this is a gay manga but girls have feeling too

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    OpiSin February 27, 2020 11:48 pm

    I get what you mean, but blame homophobia and how heteronormative society is.

    Also how rigid a number of societies around the world still are in terms of social hierarchy. He can't really say no to his boss's daughter...

    soie_yoie February 28, 2020 6:37 am

    I dont think he's marrying to hide his sexuality.
    He never said he was gay and when he talks. He said gender doeant matter.

    He can have sex with either gender. He's most likely bi.

    The only thing wierd is he does talk about love or loving but he doesnt seem to love anyone.

    The black hair guy has feelings too.

    Akikosenpai February 28, 2020 2:47 pm

    Normally I would agree with you, but in this case he seems to be bisexual...

    Asamilee February 28, 2020 7:11 pm
    Normally I would agree with you, but in this case he seems to be bisexual... Akikosenpai

    Firstly, he doesn't like that girl, doesn't have enough feelings to get married to her.
    Secondly, he said he wanted to be "normal" not gay, so that he can live normal.
    Basically, from my point of view, he is using that girl to hide his gay part, and live a "normal" life

    OpiSin February 28, 2020 11:43 pm
    I dont think he's marrying to hide his sexuality.He never said he was gay and when he talks. He said gender doeant matter. He can have sex with either gender. He's most likely bi.The only thing wierd is he does... soie_yoie

    He said that his parents had suspicions of him being gay and if he makes trouble again then they'd force him to get married.

    soie_yoie February 29, 2020 5:21 am
    He said that his parents had suspicions of him being gay and if he makes trouble again then they'd force him to get married. OpiSin

    Yes but he still doest show love to anyone and he can have sex with anyone. He doesn't seem to treat any of his partner with love, male or female. He doesnt seem to care about anything.

    He just seems very unfeeling.

    Also it doesnt really matter about marriage. Even if the blond guy was straight. No one wants to be forced to marry. It just seems like marriage is a force thing where u are gay or straight.

    Someone told me the spoilers for what happens at the end

    I guess its satisfying. I think happy ending.

    OpiSin February 29, 2020 6:04 am
    Yes but he still doest show love to anyone and he can have sex with anyone. He doesn't seem to treat any of his partner with love, male or female. He doesnt seem to care about anything.He just seems very unfeel... soie_yoie

    I somewhat get what you mean, but the pressures in conservative societies in particular on people to get married to opposite gender partners is immense.

    And if you identify as LGBTQ+ and don't act 'straight enough' then it has been known that families and work environments will pressure you with hetero marriage and dating.

    I'm not suggesting that's the entire meaning or reasoning for his unfeelingness but it would make a lot of sense. Living in the closet whether gay, bi, pan etc. is incredibly, incredibly difficult. In, I would argue, nearly every society regardless of how open the society seems.

    *Not impossible just hard*

    So to suggest that it won't have some effect on the character seems a bit unrealistic.

    But I haven't read the spoilers so I'm trying to understand as best as everyone ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    soie_yoie February 29, 2020 2:48 pm
    I somewhat get what you mean, but the pressures in conservative societies in particular on people to get married to opposite gender partners is immense. And if you identify as LGBTQ+ and don't act 'straight eno... OpiSin

    Well when it comes to the president daughters, everyone is pressured. Even if he was bi, gay , or straight, if the President liked him or the daughter liked him. He would be under super pressure to marry or he will lose his job.

    It's more of a business married and can be stressfull. Because its something ppl have to do not want to do.

    But my point is. That the original poster said the blond guy shouldn't marry to hide his sexuality, but this isnt a regular marriage. She's the President's daughter. It would be disrespectful to decline regardless of sexual orientation.

    But if we are saying, be's being unjust to her. He's not being just to his male partner either. He knows his partner dislike smoke. Doesn't care and even blows smoke in the black hair guys face.

    He's being a dick to everyone. At this point.

    I have not read it either, but i was told all issues will be resolved. Happy ending. Not sure how much spoiler you want. I know some ppl get angry with spoilers,but this is yaoi. You can guess what happens. Very typical.