is it gay

cl03 February 27, 2020 7:35 pm

I am an almost 20 year old female and I don't think I have ever had a crush so I feel I maybe asexual or a late bloomer(?). I rarely think guys are that good looking but I think a lot of girls are. But I think most people this girls are generally better looking than guy. I sometimes fantasize about a future where I live with a professional type, confident and kind of lady in a flat and we cuddle on the sofa and other fluff. I read that fantasizing about someone of the same sex doesn't make you gay though. Also it may be due to me consuming to much gay content like shojo ai and gay memes. As I have said I have never had a crush and my fantasize never go beyond making out. Also I read yaoi but very sexual yuri and hetro smut make me uncomfortable. Have any of you thought like this?

Responses
    Keith February 27, 2020 7:42 pm

    I think you might have a attraction to the same sex even without the manga... It just triggers your natural attraction to them even more...

    momo February 27, 2020 7:48 pm

    from what I read, it might be that you're homoromantic (meaning: romantic attraction towards people of the same gender), but I don't really know haha,, I can suggest you to read some lesbian/homoromantic expience from people online and find what defines you better ^^

    nis February 27, 2020 7:57 pm

    only experience will tell

    ☆fUjhOsHi☆ February 27, 2020 7:59 pm

    It is gay

    momo February 27, 2020 8:18 pm
    This reply will be showed after approved! rumpelstiltskin

    well, that's obvious, but I wasn't talking about lsbian porn, but on her thoughts to share a future with a girl and that she finds females more attractive than men (in real life)

    Darky February 27, 2020 8:22 pm

    Wtf?! I am the same ( ˃ ꒳ ˂ )
    I never fall in love too

    paula_cifu February 27, 2020 9:25 pm

    I get that you wanna know, because is a good thing to know yourself. Maybe because I'm an elder but my advice is to relax about it, you will love whoever you will, and feel sexually attracted to someone when you feel it, it's better not to rush about it.

    ThatGayChicken February 27, 2020 11:10 pm

    Well, it’s no gay if you say no homo. You see, I forgot to say no homo.