I don't think that anyone who actually likes the story will write the tags RAPE, unless they are just tagging the stuff they feel like they have never seen before. But usually people who don't tag rape are those like me who have read and or are fine with rape in yaoi. Other than that i don't think someone who doesn't like this and has an account will rate it 1 star just to put the tag rape in it. If they rate it 1 star they'll get notifications and that's why im sure there's no rape tags.
I’m reading and following this story but I agree that this should have a rape tag. Heck, maybe rape should be a whole ass genre at this point, something that’s clearly written so that people are aware. It’s not hard to be mindful of people who might be triggered by rape even in a fictional setting, this doesn’t even have to be rated one star to tag it rape. At the end of the day, these kinds of plots can bring up unpleasant memories for a lot of people. Even if someone hasn’t experienced it themselves, rape is a real issue at the end of the day and it can happen to any one of us. So I understand why someone would be upset that there’s no warning.
Oh I understand people who don't want the notifications not tagging. But people have rape kinks yes? So why wouldn't they tag? Like it's fine to like it, if that's your thing. I'm not going to judge. Personally I just dislike rape, and don't understand it myself, and thus try to avoid it when reading yaoi.
Which is why I wish there was a tag for it, i mean isn't 'tragedy' a tag? Heck I can't imagine this story being anything but a tragedy, so I would have tagged it that too. But i guess because the story isn't complete it would be unfair.
Anyway, the point wasn't to complain about rape not being a tag. The point was merely to try and provide a warning seeing as the usual methods failed me this time.
Thanks for the reply and have a nice day.
I agree with almost everything except for one. It's not fine to like rape just because it's their thing. Rape shouldn't be a kink, it's a crime.
Rape is a crime, but to use it in consensual role play in a safe environment with someone you trust is the business of the people with that kink and nobody elses. Enjoying it in comics, or animations, or even outright porn is fine in my opinion, as long as it never crosses the line into reality. Also with it properly tagged, marked whatever would be great too...
Oh. That's disgusting then. I don't mind reading it in fictions, but can believe how insane some people are to have rape as their kink. Really gross and morally and legally wrong.
Btw, you got a lil aggressive there, mate. Let's chill a little.
I think you misunderstood my reply. I don't dislike the story nor think that ppl shouldn't be reading this because of the content. I understand that this is a mature story. You mentioning it is quite irrelevant. My point is about how disgusting it is to have rape as a kink. That's all.
Consensual rape roleplay is not really rape so that's beside my actual point. Enjoying it in comics and fictions is alright for me as well. A lot of people enjoy murder stories but they don't actually commit murder. My comment was literally just about having rape as a kink, or enjoying the idea of rape.
The whole rape-roleplay thing is part of rape kink. Just as being tied up is a kink to some people. So I don't really understand what you mean when you say rape as a kink is disgusting.
I mean when you, I dunno, do police role play and have sex the other person isn't generally an actual police officer, but the uniform is sexy and hand cuffs are fun? I think another well known one might be the doctor & nurse play? People also aren't actual doctors or nurses usually, but they play it out and have fun anyway. Rape role paly = other person not actually a rapist. Safe & consensual.
I'm talking about the nonconsensual one. A person with a rape kink literally raping another person and going away with, "It's my kink so it's okay." Or reading a fic and saying that, "He raped her. That's hot." Enjoying a story with rape content is different from enjoying the rape itself. People with rape kink enjoy both the story and the idea of someone getting raped, which is pretty disturbing. Just because they don't do it in real life doesn't mean that enjoying the idea of rape is morally correct.
Yes, the rape roleplay is under the umbrella of the rape kink but my point doesn't focus on just that.
But you have your opinion in this matter so I won't bother convincing you to agree with me. Just wanna explain why I think that rape kink is morally wrong and there is nothing okay with it.
Please also read my reply from above. I already explained my opinion clearly. Also, please pinpoint where did I contradict myself?
Exactly. The idea and the fantasy is what makes it not okay for me. Just because I'm not the one doing the killing doesn't mean that it's okay for me to fantasize murder and get aroused with the idea of a person killing another person.
Rape kink is okay for you. It's not for me. That's it.
The similarity is that both can still be a fetish despite of the rarity or what. And both are also heinous crimes when done literally.
Popularity is irrelevant. What I also find morally wrong is people normalizing the idea of getting aroused with the idea of forced sex.
Uhm, I never said that I don't like (I don't like nor dislike it) rape in fiction. I like this story and it has a rape content. I just don't like the rape itself, but I don't dislike it as a content or plot armor. I also don't think that it's wrong to tell people that they shouldn't have a certain kink. If we will tolerate all kinds of kink then we we would be really fucked up some day.
Okay. Thank you for the viewpoint. I think I'll end it here, but I still stand on my point and still think that fantasizing a crime is still wrong. Will never fantasize that raping someone is arousing and normal. And will never normalize the idea of enjoying and lusting for rape. Fine if psychological studies ain't with me. Thank you. Have a nice day.
Well this wasn't what I expected lol. All I wanted to do was leave a warning to people who may not want to read a story with rape content without having to trawl through 3 million comments talking about how hot Yoon is.
Not that he isn't, but he's a rapist, and i'm reeeeaaally not ok with that. =_=;;
Im pretty sure the people who like rape only like it in fictional story's such as this. I dont think many of them like rape irl. I personally like it in fiction not irl.
So where was the rape tag? Usually with stories like this it's in the top tags. Can we not develope a tag or genere? Usually I look at to most used tags to see, but it wasn't there.
So, for anyone like me, who doesn't enjoy rape stories here is your warning. RAPE AHEAD. RAPE. THIS STORY CONTAINS RAPE.
I tried looking through the comments but didn't see anyone talking about rape, so i went ahead and read some of the story. I saw it wasn't heading in a good direction but I still hoped. My hopes were dashed though, so yeah.