Speaking as someone in an age gap relationship (my fiance and I are about 7 years apart in age), I keep getting miffed at the WAY people are wording their issue here. Like I get not liking that the seme is barely legal, and that the uke is a grown man. That I get. I've set my issue with it aside for the fluff, but I get it. But all the wording that treats the GAP like it's the issue. That... I'm not fond of. Like...sure 15 years is a lot. But like say they're 25&40. Or 40&55. The older they get the less that gap matters. The gap itself isn't the problem, it's that one party is so young. Idk I just wanted to express my thoughts.
Also my take on the "old man" bit: 33 is not an old man, but as the younger party in a relationship I'm obligated to remind my fiance he's an old man in jest. Because I'm a sassy brat, lol. It's just making a joke out of the things you do notice with an age gap is all. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Speaking as someone in an age gap relationship (my fiance and I are about 7 years apart in age), I keep getting miffed at the WAY people are wording their issue here. Like I get not liking that the seme is barely legal, and that the uke is a grown man. That I get. I've set my issue with it aside for the fluff, but I get it.
But all the wording that treats the GAP like it's the issue. That... I'm not fond of.
Like...sure 15 years is a lot. But like say they're 25&40. Or 40&55. The older they get the less that gap matters. The gap itself isn't the problem, it's that one party is so young.
Idk I just wanted to express my thoughts.
Also my take on the "old man" bit: 33 is not an old man, but as the younger party in a relationship I'm obligated to remind my fiance he's an old man in jest. Because I'm a sassy brat, lol. It's just making a joke out of the things you do notice with an age gap is all. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶