That’s exactly what I said. Though what he does is inexcusable, he was being abused himself. That may be one of the reasons why he did what he did.
Would you be stepping in the shoes and worrying about caring about a guy if you were the one raped? I doubt you would give AF about his past, and you shouldn't because there's no excuse. Being a victim doesn't give you a pass to be a criminal.
P.s. that was just an example, I pray nothing bad ever comes your way.
(︶︿︶)＝凸 Jihyun is way to possessive and beats people cause he was beaten that’s the only way her knows how to cope and that makes me sad
This comment made me cry. Thank you so much. Finally someone doesn't try to burry Jihyun because he's dysfunctional. Literally all he needs is love and help, he's just a fckin human being who needs to be fixed.
Thank you very much for understanding what I was trying to say. This comment means a lot to me c:
And that's why I said he needs help and that Chiwoo needs to break off their relationship. Jihyun is sick mentally and I can see that and it's very sad that he has to use abuse and other methods to try and cope with things or even get attention or affection from it
Maybe your right, maybe I won't give two shots about someone who has raped me but that has nothing to do with what I was trying to say. I never suggested that we should forget his past actions but I did say to try and understand a little what's going through his mind. Jihyun is sick (mentally) and has a lot of anger issues and that is half due to how he grew up. And I said on the e he grows as a character then that's when I'm welling to work with him. I want him to see what he did was wrong and grow from his past mistakes. There was no one to ever guide him and there's no excuses for what he did either. I respect what your saying because I know it isn't easy to forgive someone who did things to you that was horrible but at the same time Jihyun really needs the help and as a person I'd rather want to see him grow and become better then to just throw him in the dirt and stomp on him.
Here you are again, being an intellectual. We should meet and hug.
Okay so, Chiwoo and Jihyun need to stay completely away from each other, not just a break. Because you are right, their relationship is toxic, and it's toxic to the point where Chiwoo is suffering mentally and physically. I get that you want to have empathy for Jihyun cause he has certainly been abused, but the fact that he continuously lets his emotions completely rule his actions after being told over and over again that he needs to stop it, is ridiculous and he needs to be given professional help but he also needs to move on from Chiwoo and let him live.
And yes I understand that. But my opinion still stays. You guys can have your opinion there's nothing wrong with that. Regardless, in the end it's not only the author's but Chiwoo's decision if he wants Jihyun in his life any further. I want him to get help first and take a break from Chiwoo because Chiwoo is the only one who has given him a chance but right now it's starting to be whatever to me. However Jihyun comes out to be will come in due time when more episodes come out. That's when I'll make my final judgement of how I feel about Jihyun.
Haha not really. I'm just trying my best to get my opinion across or basically what I think or feel
Honestly I feel that Chiwoo's and Jihyun's relationship currently is very toxic and they kind of need to separate, however, I do understand Jihyun a little bit more. Most people bash Jihyun because of the things he did but you also have to Try to understand it from his perspective, kind of step in his shoes a little. Jihyun has a problem, we all know this and he doesn't know how to properly cope with his emotions which makes him lash out in the wrong ways. He honestly needs help and I feel he will grow as a character once he gets that help. Honestly people need to stop feeling so self entitled like they were never a Jihyun before (I mean not as bad as him though) but in some shape and form you were rather you like it or not. Chiwoo needs to end things between them two and Jihyun needs to respect that and then get help. Only then would I feel Jihyun as gotten a little better and deserve A LOT more love than he's getting currently. Please try to stick with him a little longer and not immediately throw him under the bus.