Her deceased husband wanted to get o'hara and Jeremy in an engagement together, and they will actually get together at some point like her past life, however because of her bad relationship with jeremy and ohara, she did not get invited to the marriage and stuff and ihara kinda hated her apparently, I think she wants to get close to o'hara and actually get the kids close together and see their real love grow instead of forcing them into a planned engagement, as we can see, 12 yo ohara seems like a cute innocent kid who (kind of?) Has a crush on jeremy, so if she can get to know her and stuff like she did with her "keds" things would go better
But Ohara is showing some mighty suspicious looks. Plus I don't understand why Ohara hated the FL in the past life. Ohara was the one who disinvited her to the marriage. Shuli hasn't mentioned why she thought Ohara hated her either. So shouldn't she be wondering if a change in her strategy will work?
But yeah given that SHULI doesn't know that, means your argument does make more sense. It's just that this story, Raeliana and Living As The Tyrant's Older Sister tend to jump to the next point before completing the previous point. So the intentions are quite vague. I understand the authors do that intentionally, it's just that it's quite jarring to me and leaves me quite confused. So thanks for the explanation!
Okay yes I've read the first page of comments and haven't seen anyone ask and yes I do agree white hair is suspicious AF BUT can anyone tell me why the FL is being so FRIENDLY with Ohara or is she the villainess she was talking about later? The problem is that she was talking about Nora and Jeremy just before that. Did Ohara have a 'tendre' for Nora in the FL's previous life?