5ft 11" me too

blackpegasus5 January 11, 2020 5:48 pm

this is frightfully relatable. i was always tall since i remember and suited western clothes and elegant office style even men clothes way better than girly clothes. it was a blessing as people complimented i look good but a curse as i liked girly clothes. long hair frills lace bows are still my type but i never got the courage to reaally wear them. even my mom was like it doesn't suit you. it became even more difficult when i joined the medical prefession as doctors cannot dress up as they wish. at some point like her even i thought it was better being a boy as i cant do girly things anyway.

this feels good to read but i can imagine the pressure of riidicule she is feeling from the people around her.

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    MoonlightSiren January 13, 2020 2:54 am

    I'm the opposite! I'm 5'2 and loved that cool style, of course I liked the girly style, but felt better in that cool style. Unfortunately my mother and friends would often say I was dressing out of my age or too flashy. Always seen as cute or girly hit me hard in highs chool, but I've come to realize being chic and cool is all about our own feelings.

    I love reading things that really relate to yourself.

    blackpegasus5 January 13, 2020 3:45 pm

    seeing people facing the same thing is kind of making me glad yet a bit sad as society's peer pressure makes us feel these things. i hope later in our generation we will be free to dress up as we want and not have people judging us based on our height weight or clothes.
    thanks for your reply it was very much appreciated.