I feel like the message is more like
"Dont be ashamed of who you were in the past but instead focus on the future"
I agree
not really. he only got the uke by completely changing himself. he was clearly ashamed of himself and felt the shame until the end. focusing on the future wont change the fact that he performed drastic surgery just to win over a partner.
Look, I would totes agree with ya if it wasn't for the subtle hints from the uke that he is happy with seme past and though he (in this case you're right) causes the seme to physically alter himself he wasn't too happy when once again the seme only solution wasn't to head on and make the solution to the complication heads on and confessed to uke and instead he alter himself to pleased another. I guess it's like when you have a one sided crush. Like, you tried to change yourself so much not even asking the other party what they think of you either from past or to the present. That when the opportunity comes upon and you learnt that woops the uke like you from the past because you're cute but obviously he didn't know the other so it's not the uke faults completely. It's more of long story short hypothesis the idea the other would like you in their preferences without letting them get to know you. Does it make sense?? Sorry in struggling to words what I want to say in long repetitive words/sentences. Forgive me.
I agree with that agreement and the original comment :P
It felt like this manhwa was promoting the fact that it's ok to change yourself to fit someone else's preferences when it's actually not. Personally I didn't like the manhwa for the message it was trying to give.
Sure if you're unattractive, people might not like you, but they don't need to. Changing yourself to be self-confident is another thing, but doing it for someone else is a bit whack to me.