This is the problem with 99% of Yaoi and especially most mangakas. "seme was a top but now...

zzzz December 2, 2019 8:26 am

This is the problem with 99% of Yaoi and especially most mangakas. "seme was a top but now he's a bottom because the other guy doesn't want it up the ass". This is utter crap. Most couples will always switch from time to time. The entire seme turned into a forever bottom slut is such bullshit. Even worse is that shitty trope of men getting 'ruined' by bottoming and unable to orgasm without a dick up their ass making them forever bottom sluts. Bring me some realistic yaoi sex Japan

Responses
    Not Your Friend December 2, 2019 2:53 pm

    PREACH

    Idefk December 13, 2019 3:01 pm

    Uhhh I don't know if you just overread that part but the seme actually suggested that he could also bottom. Like i get what you mean and that trope does annoy me as well but for this one i didnt really feel that way.

    Idefk December 13, 2019 3:02 pm

    The 'not being able to get it up without a dick up in their ass anymore' trope also was not in this at all, you sure you got the write manga here?

    Idefk December 13, 2019 3:03 pm

    *right

    zzzz December 13, 2019 6:28 pm
    Uhhh I don't know if you just overread that part but the seme actually suggested that he could also bottom. Like i get what you mean and that trope does annoy me as well but for this one i didnt really feel tha... Idefk

    it would have been realistic if the straight guy had also bottomed for once. If the gay dude was a top before he should have been shown to top once as well. But we both sex scenes showed him bottoming. Like most yaoi have fixed role couples in sex scenes. Why not draw more switch scenes? Why do manga writers and artists shy away from making versatile sex. Research shows only like 16-20% of the people who are gay are hardcore bottoms. around 14-15% are only tops. Most gays are versatile, yet most yaoi shows people with fixed top/bottom orientations. Yea maybe gays have preferences even when versatile, but versatile gays are not shown well even though that is the majority. I think this is all because people still fetishize fixed top/bottom roles because subconsciously it reminds them of male/female roles and many of the artists are women. About the 'not being able to get it up without a dick up in their ass anymore' comment, I meant in general. Its such a bullshit trope found in yaoi. Sorry about the rant. Recently I'm just frustrated because i realized the lack of switch couple mangas.

    shanasss December 13, 2019 8:44 pm
    it would have been realistic if the straight guy had also bottomed for once. If the gay dude was a top before he should have been shown to top once as well. But we both sex scenes showed him bottoming. Like mos... zzzz

    Once I read that artists do not draw much switch scenes since fans in Japan do not like and prefer couples with fixed roles
    Although I'm not sure if this is true or not

    Idefk December 14, 2019 6:00 pm
    it would have been realistic if the straight guy had also bottomed for once. If the gay dude was a top before he should have been shown to top once as well. But we both sex scenes showed him bottoming. Like mos... zzzz

    No its fine, i get what you mean and definitely agree on that, it just didn't bother me much in this specific case. But i guess sometimes the frustration simply adds up

    iamb December 19, 2019 6:42 am

    I don't think you read this.. The 'straight' guy brought up bottoming and said either way was fine with him. And the gay guy never said he couldn't top anymore, he just realized he could enjoy bottoming with Akino.