Hmm, no. If you're not looking up to them, if you don't find anything else than "His face is intense and I can focus on something else than my job" to like about them, if you're always thinking that your lover sucks at his job, if you're always making fun of him and looking down on him (like : "I can't work for somebody who can't have an incapable superior around his finger" bitch, you're fuckin' talking about your lover. And that's not the first time you're fuckin' rude.), sorry but you're not in love.
I never said that the seme needs to be perfect. But that's far from the point. I can let go the rapey trope, as we see it in most of the yaois. But even without it:
We have a seme who would always test his lover to confirm his feelings (and that pretty exhausting), a seme who would find normal to think that his lover is cheating on him at the first occasion, a seme who's using sex as a punishment (at least at first.) and finally a seme who'll have a fuckin' blank expression when his lover ask why he loves him.
Sorry, I'm not in this kind of stories where the uke is dominated. That's rotten. The seme is asking for proofs of love when he doesn't give a shit to do the same. That's not an healthy relationship, at all. M T is completely dominated.
Hmm, no. If you're not looking up to them, if you don't find anything else than "His face is intense and I can focus on something else than my job" to like about them, if you're always thinking that your lover sucks at his job, if you're always making fun of him and looking down on him (like : "I can't work for somebody who can't have an incapable superior around his finger" bitch, you're fuckin' talking about your lover. And that's not the first time you're fuckin' rude.), sorry but you're not in love.
I never said that the seme needs to be perfect. But that's far from the point. I can let go the rapey trope, as we see it in most of the yaois. But even without it:
We have a seme who would always test his lover to confirm his feelings (and that pretty exhausting), a seme who would find normal to think that his lover is cheating on him at the first occasion, a seme who's using sex as a punishment (at least at first.) and finally a seme who'll have a fuckin' blank expression when his lover ask why he loves him.
Sorry, I'm not in this kind of stories where the uke is dominated. That's rotten. The seme is asking for proofs of love when he doesn't give a shit to do the same. That's not an healthy relationship, at all. M T is completely dominated.
Oh chill dude.. How can everyone be perfect in the relationship? Anyway, not looking up to someone, but likes them is normal. For me, if I look up to someone, I'd treat them like god (like Beyonce). I wouldnt wanna fuck them..
And considering he's a workaholic. People who LOVE to work. Being able to focus on sth that's not work means that sth is EQUALLY important or lovable. That means he really cares about the boss..
You know, not everyone has to act lovey dovey spilling sweet words. And you're not gonna know how to act properly all the fucking time, so it's fine. They have mutual feelings in the end..
Ryo has some fucked up personality... How can you be in love with somebody you're not looking up to ? Seriously : I'm in love cause I can focus on something else that my job ?
He's definitely trash. Raped the man at first, avoided him without giving him any explanation before barging into his apartment and corner him, Throwing tantrums like a little kid, being an ass to work with and always trashing the uke personality (which is not so great to, yes, I know. But at least, he's not looking down on his lover)...
If I see why the uke is in love, I can't see any love from the seme.