First of all, chiwoo only sees the sweet parts of jihyun & none of the bad. I’m not sure if you guys are aware, but trauma does that to people. My abusive father could be the goofiest person on the planet, especially when i was a kid. So now that i’m an adult, i can’t for the life of me be with a man that’s goofy or playful bc all i see is my dad, and then i just start thinking “what if he turns out like that too?”. It’s gotten so bad to the point were although i am attracted to men, i just cant see myself raising a family with one because then all i think is that one day they’re gonna snap and it’s gonna be that same situation my mom was in with my father. i don’t go out of my way to see the bad in men, it’s just something that happens even though im sure there are honest, sweet, genuinely good guys out there that are nothing like my dad. So chiwoo isn’t saying kyujin is a bad guy nor is chiwoo a bad person for thinking like that, it just shows how much abuse he endured when jihyun was around.
First of all, chiwoo only sees the sweet parts of jihyun & none of the bad. I’m not sure if you guys are aware, but trauma does that to people. My abusive father could be the goofiest person on the planet, especially when i was a kid. So now that i’m an adult, i can’t for the life of me be with a man that’s goofy or playful bc all i see is my dad, and then i just start thinking “what if he turns out like that too?”. It’s gotten so bad to the point were although i am attracted to men, i just cant see myself raising a family with one because then all i think is that one day they’re gonna snap and it’s gonna be that same situation my mom was in with my father. i don’t go out of my way to see the bad in men, it’s just something that happens even though im sure there are honest, sweet, genuinely good guys out there that are nothing like my dad. So chiwoo isn’t saying kyujin is a bad guy nor is chiwoo a bad person for thinking like that, it just shows how much abuse he endured when jihyun was around.