He probably doesn’t want to open an old wound. And you probably want to know so you can close that chapter. If it was me I’d ask my self if it’s really that important to know.
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But what kind of wound would be deep enough ? Is it something I did ?
He's one of those people I can imagine dying of old age with. And I feel pushed away, I don't want a friendship where you only have the right to smile and goof around.
I can forget it, and I don't want force him but I still feel uneasy.... Is it alright for me to leave all the burden on him ?
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I think he should take the responsibility of telling you why he cut you off for such a long time. He was the one who made that mistake so you deserve to know why.
This one make sence :v
lmao no, I already met him once (and we play with his bro, and his friends etc), but he's kinda an old man in his head I guess ╮(￣▽￣)╭
he probably wants attention or for you to pry so that he feels as though someone cares about his feelings
Did you enjoy ur time with him now?
Then stop digging his past!
Clearly he did not think he can trust u enough to open his wound.
If I were u,I will not hog his past but try to build more/deep understanding with him.
If he one day wanna tell u the story is good,if not is also ok.
What important is present and future
You seem like your still hurt by it he apologized but you guys should probably have an adult conversation about it if you can’t let it go just don’t pressure him if he really doesn’t want too. It reminds me of myself a few years ago I was going through a depression and cut off all my friends when I think back to it a get embarrassed at myself he might be feeling that way it could be a million reasons. Just be respectful about it and have an adult conversation with eachother.
I have a friend, he's a guy, i'm a girl, we're both in our twenties. We're online friends, we met on a game 5 years ago, after spending a lot of time together, we couldn't get along anymore and he deleted me from skype, where we spoke back then.
A year or so after, he came back and apologized for "leaving" without any reason, I didn't really mind since we fought a lot back then, and I still don't know why, our conversations would just turn bad...
So now it's been +/-3years, we speak from time to time and lately we play together almost everyday. Today we spoke about the time when we couldn't get along anymore and he refused to tell me why he deleted me. He said his reasons weren't enough, that all I needed to know is that he was a douchebag and that saying why he did it would be worst than me not talking to him anymore.
And I'm like.... this is makes no sense ....?
I know curiosity killed the cat, but....I still want to know