Maybe it's about their roll in bed (≧▽≦)
it's another thing that pisses me off in yaoi lol like why people say "woman role" "men role" like bruh there's no such thing god you're both man it's like asking who's the girl in a gay relationship or asking who's the boy in a lesbian relationship, THERE'S NO SUCH THING that's why it's homosexual aksnalamakamkamakaamks
this is such a mood lmao thanks for saying this
In some Asian countries people in homosexual relationship refer to themselves as wife and husband in place of bottom or top so maybe that's why
For some reason, it kind of ticked me off when in yaoi they said something to their partner like 'you're my wife' or something like that instead of 'husband'. Like, why? Your partner is a guy! I know they don't mean any harm or anything, but it just gives me the impression that there HAS to be a girl and a guy role in a gay relationship, even though they're both guys ╮(￣▽￣)╭