Are there any lesbian couples at school? Can you ask her what she thinks about it? How does she handle physical contact with versus others?
If you ask her out are you comfortable with possibly being publicly out?
Enjoy the crush. I remember my first crush on a girl in high school and it was very bittersweet. Before you focus on what you feel about her think about what you feel first.
Even if she does end up rejecting you it's not a rejection of you. You will find someone who truly loves you and wants you for you one day. Don't punish yourself for the ones that don't. Also you will meet people that are in the lgbtq spectrum and can't accept it. Don't let the rejection of themselves make you feel like you are rejected for your sexuality.
you should confess to her.... in the way that she always dreamed of. best of luck.
bibi
That is a piece of great advice! Umbrella, i agree with bibi
you should reincarnate as a kpop star and then seduce her
Since she's straight, she's going to reject you. Doesn't matter if she's supportive of the LGTBQ. If she's straight then she's straight. You have two options
1) Settle your feelings on your own and keep your friendship
2) Confess to get your feelings out of your system. You gon get rejected and it's gon be awkward but it'll help you let go of her if you can't do it yourself.
Sorry to sound like a bitch but I don't want to motivate you and give you hope when there's no evidence to support it. Either way, you're still in school and you got a life ahead of you. She's not the only person you're ever going to love. Just because it won't work out with her doesn't mean you missed your chance at love.
Ah That's a solid plan right here!
first things first: ignore the trolls.
second: don't, thats kinda weird. you know she's straight so why would you still ask her out? It'd make sense of you weren't sure or if you didn't know she was het but since she is you might just make shit weird between you two. And like what if she feels bad saying no so she says yes outta pitty? don't put her in an awkward position if youre her friend my dude. and im not sure if you ain't used to girls being touchy PLATONICALLY, but its normal for chicks to be like that. im assuming you're a pretty young queer so learn this shit early: dont try to make something out of nothing. she's straight, accept it and move on.
100% agree with this person. My relationship with my female friends in school included a lot of spanking, hugging, holding hands, sitting on each others lap, using each other as pillows (like lap pillows), me carrying em etc. It was just healthy platonic interactions. Since ya have feelings for the girl, ya should build some physical distance between you two so ya don't have these interactions.
If she’s straight, don’t ask her out. I’m sorry to say it, but I think you should move on.
Stop it. It's not funny. It's disgusting.
No... I mean thinking you can gain someone's love by raping them.
So there’s this girl at school I think I really like. I don’t think I’ve ever seriously liked anyone this bad and she gives me bubbles when I see her at school. The thing is, I’m bi and she is totally straight. She’s into kdramas with handsome guys but I really really want to confess to her. She’s totally fine with holding hands and long hugs from me but I think she only thinks of it as super platonic. I joked about us dating and she got super flustered and called me crazy. She’s like okay with the LGBTQ community but I don’t know for sure. Should I ask her out? We’ve been friends for like 3 years and part of a close circle of friends. I don’t want her to feel awkward if she rejects me and I’m so fucking nervous. What should I do?