Why was sexual assault glorified?

Rice Daddy October 25, 2019 2:25 pm

I’m not the only one that knows it was rape, and as many have said, it’s not an unusual trope in BL (as much as I wish it wasn’t). But somehow this manga glorifies this awful thing as something that ‘connects destined lovers’??? He RAPED him. He continuously said no and even called it rape afterwards himself. The seme didn’t have consent so he RAPED him.

And let’s talk about how women are often used as a tool or object to prove that the love interest isn’t gay (despite them clearly being gay, because bisexuality and pansexuality somehow never crosses the shitty, cliche BL artist’s mind).

Before the seme assaulted the uke, he assaulted a woman and it’s not being talked about. It was even mentioned in the manga and the only response was “oh my god he’s into women”, not “oh my god he attack a woman”. All the women in this story are either one-dimensional or doesn't exist, and the story was so confusing I’m not sure if the seme has a trans woman sister?

This entire story was an honest to god monstrosity. I read it until this long hoping to god for a redemption. I should’ve known not to have hope.

Responses
    Shay October 27, 2019 6:59 pm

    I don't think think it glorifies it, I don't like rape scene usually.... because the characters ignores they were raped and think "oh he loved me so much he couldn't help it". But that's not how it happened here at all. The characters are conscious it's rape.... they are just messed up. It's not a story where rape is glorified or normalized, it's a story where the characters are messed up. (I mean, there is rapist and two stalkers here.......)

    Rice Daddy October 28, 2019 12:35 am
    I don't think think it glorifies it, I don't like rape scene usually.... because the characters ignores they were raped and think "oh he loved me so much he couldn't help it". But that's not how it happened her... Shay

    You say that’s not how it rolls out, but isn’t it? Even when they ‘have sex’ later the uke still defines it as rape. Horrifyingly enough, the seme tells him to stop calling it rape, and as ‘making love’. It was almost sickening to read, and I hope no survivors ever read this because that would be so triggering. The fact that you’re defining the rapist as someone who’s ‘simply messed up’ even proves my point. He isn’t some barn animal. Jesus Christ, no matter how the author depicted him to be, the seme is a man with intelligent thought and control. He knowingly raped the uke and attempted to rape a woman. The author is a horrible person with no understanding of rape and how utterly disgusting and terrible it is and so writes a story that reflects that.

    raindragon October 28, 2019 12:28 pm
    You say that’s not how it rolls out, but isn’t it? Even when they ‘have sex’ later the uke still defines it as rape. Horrifyingly enough, the seme tells him to stop calling it rape, and as ‘making lov... Rice Daddy

    so says a person full of half-baked ideas and zero experience

    Rice Daddy October 28, 2019 12:36 pm
    so says a person full of half-baked ideas and zero experience raindragon

    ? I’m not even sure what that means, but you ‘insulting’ me only means you have nothing intelligent to say. Are you done? If that’s all you have left to contribute then please don’t waste anyone else’s time and leave. Thanks!

    narcophilia November 2, 2019 5:01 am
    so says a person full of half-baked ideas and zero experience raindragon

    bruh, u can be critical of art and not be an artist. I myself have been raped, and found thing particular manga nearly-unreadable. It started off good but quickly became a disappointment. The mangaka isn’t going to read the mangago comment section and get her feelings hurt because survivors and those with coherent thought didn’t like her manga. Let people speak and make ur own comment if u disagree so much.

    raindragon November 2, 2019 5:07 am
    bruh, u can be critical of art and not be an artist. I myself have been raped, and found thing particular manga nearly-unreadable. It started off good but quickly became a disappointment. The mangaka isn’t go... narcophilia

    that's what I'm doing.