okay so even if you consider the "age of consent" bullshit (sorry the language, I just think it's bullshit) he's still trying to make a pass at someone who's vulnerable that he doesn't even really like or know honestly, so it makes it not okay lol. him being a minor just makes it a huge red flag. I mean y'all can say it's a comic, but if it was in real life that guy would be a huge asshole in my opinion
also, it's one thing having sex as a minor with another minor and having sex with a minor being an adult so...
also I know you said the "as long as he waits and makes an adult decision" and all that and I kind of agree with you? like it really rubs me the wrong way an adult with a minor, but if he's like 1 year from being an adult I think it's okay?? the part that really bothers me now is just that the guy seems to be taking advantage of dongho even if it's not that clear idk man
and I'm really just sharing my thoughts, I hope I don't sound as "angry" as I think I do? jwjdnkandkanekfkf like it's cool if we don't agree, I'm not trying to change your opinion, just sharing what I got from that and hoping you understand my point of view :)
He’s a couple weeks from 20, good grief. The other guy is 24. This is hardly criminal, especially if the guy waits till 20. In the US, they could already be married, which is a life commitment and a much bigger deal. Yes, they would be young, but considered perfectly fine.
i agree that age wise it is fine, but he is still a high-school student. I usually think of the age of consent as, they should be in collage/living independantly, so as to have the responsibility and perspective of an adult. I am more worried about that fact that he is taking advantage of dongu's emotional state to manipulate him. He doesn't seem like a bad guy, but that is still a crappy thing to do. When offering comfort, there should be no ulterior motives. He doesn't seem to be pressuring him, so i hope it turns out fine, but re-bounds tend to be messy.
i agree that age wise it is fine, but he is still a high-school student. I usually think of the age of consent as, they should be in collage/living independantly, so as to have the responsibility and perspective of an adult. I am more worried about that fact that he is taking advantage of dongho's emotional state to manipulate him. He doesn't seem like a bad guy, but that is still a crappy thing to do. When offering comfort, there should be no ulterior motives. He doesn't seem to be pressuring him, so i hope it turns out fine, but re-bounds tend to be messy.
I dont think hes gonna take advantage of him in this situation. He doesnt seem like that much of a dick
He's like 20.
yep same
also sorry to everyone if it sounds like messy, I mean what I said in general tbh, like I think 20 and 24 is fine, I was just kinda frustrated bc of this whole minor/adult think we have going on in romance in general, you know? and well, Will said what I wanted to say basically, I'm just really bad with words lol
Nah you're fine. I just remembered that he's just smart and finished his uni exams already.
Everyone, please do remember that the age of consent vary from country to country. It’s not like he’s 8. Most people start having sex around the age of 15 and most are in the right mind to do so. As long as Dongho waits and is in the right mind to make that adult decision, then to me, it would be okay.