Um the uke is telling him no and he keeps going. That's not lack of communication skills on the uke's part. And seme is just being a douchebag. Again nothing to do with communication skills. Ktbn.
Right...that’s a communication issue...In real life a couple would need to sit down and talk about this big disconnect and why it’s a problem, but not in the heat of the moment when everything is fired up. The uke would need to make it clear that he feels threatened/hurt when the seme pushes for sexual contact; the seme would need to acknowledge the uke’s feelings and explore how to contain this part of himself/redirect it in a healthier way so that both parties feel good in the connection. Like I said, communication issue. There’s always a speaker and a listener in every interaction. Healthy couples need to identify/explore unhelpful patterns and work together to build communication pathways that uplift one another. If they can’t work together, then yes, that would be a problem. In this case the seme’s inner dialogue is making it clear that he’s confused and reacting poorly to his burgeoning feelings of affection/love for the uke (and mistakenly believing it’s a need for sex); he’s “acting it out” poorly because he doesn’t know what he’s feeling or how to explore it in a healthy way yet. A healthy couple would explore this and help one another...communication, yeah...
What have I become?
A makeshift rickshaw, that’s what (≧∀≦)
These boys are killing me. Just too funny. They need a good ol’ fashioned couples therapy sesh to work on their communication skills before all hell breaks loose tho —