Yeah..

Oraore October 19, 2019 11:45 am

My classmates this year treat my group(my friends and I) as if we doesn't exist. For example if there is a class event, like playing truth or dare they would only play it by themself..not that I hope they'll invite us to play with them..but even if I join them they wouldn't pay attention to us obv... Most of us had even been classmates for 3 whole years.. But this year its kinda.. yeah
They only search for us when they NEED us for things like hw or stuff like stapler...

And they were planning to do farewell party since a lot of them transfer next year.. at first I was planning to go but then they say it will be held somewhere outside the school, so its without our teacher.. and the reason why i wanna go at first is because theyre using the classroom money which everyone pays...

So should i go or not? And whats ur opinion on how and what to do with this kind of friends..#-.-)

Responses
    Uzumakii October 19, 2019 11:53 am

    if you paid & you want to you BETTER go!! if you're bothered by their behavior tell them off , if not don't pay it any mind.

    datfujioshiegg October 19, 2019 11:59 am

    If you go you won't have nay fun times at all but in this situation I advice you to go since it's just fair, you may not enjoy their company and they might not enjoy yours so just pay them no mind and keep doing what you do best.

    sasukesharringar October 19, 2019 12:59 pm

    Classroom money? Not sure what you mean by that, is it like a deposit, do you get some back if it is not used?

    If it is an event organised by school funds even if it is off site it should be supervised by either teachers or parents.

    It kinda sounds like your group is being bullied.

    If it is a supervised event and you have put money towards it you should have no problem attending with your friends. If it is an unsupervised event it could be dangerous (you would be a better judge yourself).

    But if they are using money that you were to have gotten back like a deposit and you don't feel that you can be included in the event tell either your teacher or parents so that you and your friends get your portion of the deposit back. Or to at least ensure that it is a supervised event so that nothing bad happens.

    Unfortunately this is one of the decisions that you have to weigh up all the pros and cons for both going and not going.

    Which would you regret more going or not going?

    Maybe you and your friends can have a party on your own?

    Or do you want to go to see off one or two of your friends that are part of the larger group that are transferring?
    (If this is the case just concentrate on your friends and just be overly polite to everyone else, this will be more annoying to people trying to ignore you)

    Oraore October 19, 2019 1:18 pm
    if you paid & you want to you BETTER go!! if you're bothered by their behavior tell them off , if not don't pay it any mind. Uzumakii

    Thank you ill try to speak with them (●'◡'●)ノ

    Oraore October 19, 2019 1:19 pm
    If you go you won't have nay fun times at all but in this situation I advice you to go since it's just fair, you may not enjoy their company and they might not enjoy yours so just pay them no mind and keep doin... datfujioshiegg

    Thank you ..im still deciding tho (⌒▽⌒)

    Oraore October 19, 2019 1:22 pm
    Classroom money? Not sure what you mean by that, is it like a deposit, do you get some back if it is not used?If it is an event organised by school funds even if it is off site it should be supervised by either... sasukesharringar

    Im still not sure whether i can get the money back.. that money was supposed to be used for decorating our class but it seems that they doesnt use it for that purpose a lot since theres a lot of money ...kinda like 250 dollar something ...

    Yeah and its not supervised and theyre doing it outside the school kinda like in mall or something

    Thank you for taking ur time to reply to me (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
    Im touched

    Daisy October 19, 2019 8:59 pm

    you already have friends, pay the rest no mind, live your life, being happy hahaha. If you want to go to the party, go with your group and enjoy, cuz you're paying for it too....