SAME! I despise that so much! Especially in Love is an illusion. I hate how the gold digger of a uke is treated like a fukin girl he even looks like one. I LOVE manly ukes.
i know right!! for me it annoys me because like it reminds me of people who ask gay men "so, who's the girl/wife/gf," like, there is no girl because they're both men.
preach, and honestly so many mangas and manwhas use this as a plot. ''I'll make you my bride'' and shit in fantasy settings. plz don't
Yes !! there’s a sense of underlying denial when they refer try to place heteronormative roles onto the relationship
Heteronormativity is wack
ughhh love is an illusion is such a big perpetrator of this. i really hate hyesung he's a horrible person, but on top of that he's basically just a woman being called a man so people can jerk it.
yeaaa! i've seen so many of those like "i'll make you into a woman ;)" type of things or the seme calling s/o his 'wife'. it always grosses me out
it's like exactly this! it's such a heteronormative mindset :( why even read stories for mlm relationships if all you'll do is try to feminize one of them as much as possible
Nope you’re not the only one.
damn no one ask you all that but it would be find if they called them hubby or husband
incels when they see me
mmhh so you support asshole ukes that take advantage of semes??
am i the only one that finds calling the more "feminine" character in a gay relationship the "wife" really annoying? i see it a lot and it never fails to annoy me