There is a difference between an open marriage and cheating my dude. It would've been an open marriage IF he told her from the start that he had something going on with his side piece. But he didn't, so he had the guilt (?) to hide it from her and obviously never planned on doing so. A political marriage that doesn't have all relationships laid bare is still cheating, when someone fucks someone else, while married. IF he told her from the get go he had a dude he was having sex with, she probably wouldn't even have cared and just shipped it so much harder than she does. But he fully drags her away to have sex twice! Doesn't tell her and she only finds out on accident. That IS cheating and if you think otherwise you really have some issues. Anything that is kept secret from your spouse like that is cheating, end of my ted talk.
Its not cheating. Marriage without feelings is only a freaking paper. No one asked them if they wanted to get married. Fucking eachother doesnt mean he is in any way in love. Thats what they have to do! Thats nobility for you. He and she can fuck whoever hell they want until they decide they care about one another and want to be exclusive. Cuz right now they are more like friends. He doesnt really have to give her any explanations. She doesnt care one bit. She actually loves it. And if u dont like it well thats your problem. In this day and age not everyone is soo damn uptight as u. Sure if he told her from the start it would have been much better but he was ashamed how can u tell somebody that u are fucking a dude. He was ashamed that she would condemn him. Its not that difficult to understand. It would have been a different story if she loved him. But thats not the case here. U have to be more open minded. Stop judging.
your logic about this is just.... wow. dude. as i said. even if its in paper. they are still married to EACH OTHER. it's not ML is married to BOTH. cheating is cheating. period. get your facts straight. Married = 2 people, aka ML and FL. FL didn't gave her consent for an open marriage from the start you twat. If she would have known about that little fact about ML and his aide, then that's another whole story. But just showing this out of nowhere and making FL find out just days or weeks after they married. THAT is why people here are disappointed about. If it was revealed in the first place, people would have been understanding or at least not caught off guard about it.
ML does not have any kind of obligation to the FL. Their marriage was not their choice they just freaking met. They dont even know eachother that well. They are friends at most. U can qualify it as cheating if one party is hurt and neither are. Their relationship barely exists. U cant ask somebody to be loyal or able to tell u something if u dont even know them. The FL likes it so whats your problem. Its not like he is your husband.
Cheating can be defined as being emotionally or sexually unfaithful to your partner who you are in a closed relationship with. Having intimate physical or emotional contact with another person is typically considered cheating.
Even if they aren't that emotionally attached to each other, being intimate PHYSICALLY with another person, other than your SPOUSE, is STILL considered cheating.
People are saying he is cheating but they dont have feelings for eachother as of yet and even tho they are married their relationship is more like friends with benefits