We desensitized bby

I think a lot of us do.

I've maintained this state of mind since my first yaoi.
Bcauz yaoi is fiction and I'm not a snowflake.

Sometimes I only read to admire the art.
It's all you can really do half the time.

much like rape, incest, pedophilia/shota, Stockholm syndrome, kidnapping, abuse/dehumanizing characters for me.

Well the thing is, the character’s way of thinking is much different. Readers scream rape and *he didnt consent to it* at everything but if the uke didnt want it, he would have done more than just saying *stop*. Still, all the drama is based on stupid stuff and so yea my brain cells are still turned off to be able to accept everyone’s fucked up way of thinking...

I get those ones are kinda excusable it's the ones where they touch the other party in their sleep or purposefully get them drunk etc is where I'm kinda like , usally its not enough to make me drop a story but some of these stories be getting on my last nerve lately

Well, some uke are sleeping while being fucked, like the fuck you ain’t waking up dude. And the ukes who pass out drunk after 1 or 2 drink, like comeon. And they be like *my friends forced me to drink*.... #StupidityLevelBeyondRepair.

But the worst is when uke knows he was raped/sexually attacked when sleeping/drunk, and doesnt do anything. *my friend said it was a joke* or just totally ignore the fact and thinks he will be able to prevent it next time....

Yeaaaa it annoys me a lot too honestly. And depending on how the rest of the story goes, I may or may not be able to turn a blind eye to it. Like if the uke is assaulted and then is like "SINCE I GOT HARD THAT MEANS I LOVE YOU!" I'll probably face palm and be like ok this story ain't that great. Other times, if the couple actually progresses well and the love seems natural, I'll let it slide.

I still get too angry at poor writing and bad handling of situations to be okay with it. Like, okay there's a rape scene, not a good situation! However, I can accept it as integral to the story if the rapist isn't let off easily or expected to be excused by the audience. I generally hate it when the seme sexually assaults the uke or even vise versa without retribution or the writer making it clear that it's not good.

A toxic relationship can be dramatic and stressful for an audience, and needs to be handled well. But I hate when writers try to make it seem like it's a good relationship or not a big deal.

I just don’t care lmao