Whew

Alextheaveragetrap September 30, 2019 8:37 am

The second one hit too close to home, my ex would beat me then cry how life was hard, so I developed a thought I was the only one who could help him. He cheated on me repeatedly then try to beat me for finding out, yet I didn’t leave because I loved him. He would show he changed and then he’d get set off randomly. It came to a point I said nothing and did nothing so it didn’t set him off but that too set him off. I had to realize after throwing away tons of empty concealer bottles to cover black eyes, choke marks, handprints that it’s not my job to do this. I beat his ass with a pan (because it was closest since we were in the kitchen and he was threatening to cut me.) and left. That’s why I hate reading these comments saying “I’m glad Nagisa stayed.” Relationships aren’t therapy, he needs help professionally especially since it brewed from childhood.

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    Harukka October 5, 2019 1:47 am

    I'm really sorry this happened to you! It's good that you found the courage to leave. I hope that you are doing well and that now you know the difference between a good healthy relationship and a bad one! Good Luck with everything! (●'◡'●)ノ