Relate

I agree 100%, no one should force you or out you without your permission, absolutely no one. You will know when it's the right time, you can have people who will give you the courage and the supportive nudges to come out, but it should never be forced.

Just now, an old friend of mine from middle school and high school just posted on Snapchat that being gay is nasty and an abomination. I never thought she was homophobic. I can't bring myself to hate her being she was a friend who I cared about. This made it a little more harder for me to come out now. I do have friends who know, but now I'm even more terrified of telling the wrong person and being called an abomination.

On another note, we are not nasty and abominations. WE are people. WE are people with feelings just like everyone else and we can't change who we are. I didn't lost a good friend, She did unknowingly. I accepted who I am a long time ago. This incident just triggered the memories and the fear, but no matter what you just need to accept yourself. Which takes time to do it took me about 4 years to accept it, so don't give up and push to be better to show those fucker that we can love just as strong as them.

I agree. It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you are not.

Niina isn't trying to force him to come out but rather trying to get Kurisu to accept his own orientation. I don't think he has to tell everybody that he's going out with a man, he just can be happy without shouting it to the world. He is a grown ass man, doesn't need the approval of anybody and certainly doesn't need to tell anybody if he's in a relationship or not. So I'm really sorry that you had such a bad experience but that's not really similar to this situation. Bc Kurisu thinks, it would affect his daughter in a bad way if he gives in to Niina but in what way would the daughter be affected? She wouldn't really be affected, bc she doesn't give a damn about who her father is dating. She doesn't even know what romatical love is so...