"I'm not victim blaming but....". Where does this belief that just stating you're not a victim blamer, racist, what-have-you makes you neither of those things come from? Word to the wise: if it fits the formula "victim does x so abuser isn't responsible for y" it is victim blaming. In other words, if FL 'chooses to ignore red flags' ML isn't responsible for succeeding in deliberately concealing his wrongdoings is victim blaming. Tyvmfavb101.
Look, I'm not defending what the ml did here. I despise the ml. Maybe the way i said it made you misunderstand but what I'm saying is she shouldn't fall for him that easily. And I do pity her cause no one deserve to be in a situation like that. I have not mention any race in the previous point I'd made so I don't know where you'd get that. I have also stated "Just because he did one nice thing, doesn't mean he is nice and is exempt from his wrongdoing" this should be enough prove that I'm not on his side. What I'm criticizing here is not that she got hurt because of her action but that the way the author wrote about her, thinking we would be convince she all of a sudden believe the ml really liked her when she clearly have know he only did that for the contract. Anyways, if you disagree with my point, i understand. I'm really bad at explaining things so please understand ╥﹏╥
I'm not happy with what he's doing!!! Poor girl is going to go insane when she finds out that he's been using her all this time. She might end up having a mental breakdown because her dad left her when she was a kid and her ex cheated on her a month before the wedding....sighs