doesn’t rlly seem like the author knows what a BDSM dynamic is supposed to be like, the ...

narcophilia September 22, 2019 8:05 am

doesn’t rlly seem like the author knows what a BDSM dynamic is supposed to be like, the uke acted like a dom and the seme acted like a sub 80% of the time

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    36u November 17, 2019 8:20 am

    bdsm doesnt have to take form of a top being dominant or a bottom being submissive though? a bottom can be dominant and vice versa

    narcophilia November 28, 2019 4:42 am
    bdsm doesnt have to take form of a top being dominant or a bottom being submissive though? a bottom can be dominant and vice versa 36u

    nah, I get that!! I DONT WANNA REREAD THIS AGAIN so I’m not positive, but I’m pretty sure the bottom was set up as a sub? but pretty much all of his actions were dominant, like he acted like a dom, if I remember correctly

    TwitteringBirdOfPrey December 21, 2019 6:26 am

    It sounds like you don't know what a BDSM dynamic is "supposed to be". The only universal rule in BDSM that it's consensual, and that a Dom or top takes responsibility for the sub or bottom's safety if you're doing something that puts them at risk. It's a very diverse world.

    "The uke acted like a dom and the seme acted like a sub 80% of the time". I don't understand what your point is though, that happens all the time in real life (except for the labels "seme" and "uke", those defined roles only exist in yaoi, not real life). Most people who like BDSM don't practice lifestyle D/s, they just do it in the bedroom, so some couples switch roles. Kayama mostly tops from the bottom. He definitely wasn't set up as a sub, but even if he had been, that wouldn't say anything about the mangaka's understanding of BDSM. It would mean they wanted to challenge your assumptions and stereotypes.

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    Esdeath2701 April 13, 2020 2:02 am
    nah, I get that!! I DONT WANNA REREAD THIS AGAIN so I’m not positive, but I’m pretty sure the bottom was set up as a sub? but pretty much all of his actions were dominant, like he acted like a dom, if I rem... narcophilia

    So what if his actions were dominant? That doesn't mean he can't be a sexual submissive. You're the one who doesn't know shit about BDSM, sis.

    narcophilia April 13, 2020 8:33 am
    So what if his actions were dominant? That doesn't mean he can't be a sexual submissive. You're the one who doesn't know shit about BDSM, sis. Esdeath2701

    ok, I wrote this months ago, thank u very much for ur opinions

    kimi_hona December 22, 2020 3:41 am

    He’s a power sub tho, it’s a yaoi trope and switches are a thing