he DID tho, he gave him time to think. but there was a really long pause and sunny even said 'can i have time to think about this' as if their relationship wasn't as clear to him as it is to taesung who's obviously in love with him. if you like someone, wouldn't you answer back immediately? and sunny didn't even go out to chase him (he was like 'yeah i should chase him but... maybe it's best not to) so you can't say it's only taesung's fault.
also since you're heated, you must've missed this:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/behind_the_desk/uu/iur_chapter-30/pg-25/
sunny admitted he used him
...did...did you read what i wrote??? lol did i say it was taesung's fault? did i say sunny was in the right? 'cause i'm pretty sure i didn't. and no, taesung didn't let sunny think, and he ran away. u don't have to agree with me, but it ain't gonna stop making it true. also (not an excuse, but an explanation of how he reacted) he's been in an abusive relationship since forever. and yup he didn't go after taesung, but he wanted to. to me that counts for something, that he truly did want to go after him, but didn't because of what taesung said, because of what his ex made him believe over and over again over the years. because the last time he tried to stop someone they got hit by a fucking car and almost died. i'd probably be a lil fucked up if i had to go through all that tbh
and no sunny didn't admit to it, he's just repeating what taesung said and taking it as true because he said it. the way i read it, he was very confused about the whole situation, and unsure about their relationship, and if he really was using him or not.
i get it, you're angry at sunny and you like taesung. i've been annoyed at sunny since a lot of chapters ago and i've been on taesung's side since the beginning, i really have..and still in this chapter i just...connected to sunny :/ because even if taesung was somewhat right, he still left, and didn't talk shit out.
we're different ppl, and we see things differently, that's ok! it's completely fine that you disagree with the way i interpreted this chapter. but that doesn't make you right. it doesn't make me right either. they're both wrong, even if sunny is ultimately more wrong for entering a relationship without fixing his shit first...i feel for him anyway. and taesung obviously knew that sunny wasn't ok, and that he hasn't been treated well and still kinda lashed out and left so idk dude. i was just writing my feelings out, and somehow pissed you off, sorry lol
Yeah, I think he should have stuck around for answers and a good long talk.
right?? like yeah dude say what you have to say, but also listen. thanks for agreeing ^^
Taesung needs to mellow out. The two of them need a break, and they need to restart and move a lot slower than they have been. Sex does not equal love. And from what I can see it looks like Taesung cares more for Sunny than Sunny does for Taesung. And at this time frame in a normal relationship that's ok! Sometimes it takes a bit for feeling to even out at the start of a relationship.
Unfortunately Sunny has been trained by Young to be a people pleaser. So he jumped into offering sex because he could definitely tell that Taesung was interested in his body. But judging by that flashback I think that it is possible for Sunny to truly fall for Taesung. He just needs time.
They need to actually date each other. lol. I don't think it was a bad thing for Taesung to leave before getting an answer. I just don't think he should have left in such a huff. Sunny needs time to find himself, and Taesung needs to chill and reevaluate what he wants. Because it takes two to tango. Yes Sunny offered sex but Taesung didn't have to take him up on it. He could have turned Sunny down for sex. They need to get their heads on right and then come back and talk things out.
exactly! neither of them were actually in the right in this situation, and the biggest issue is miscommunication and just not talking things out, like what they want from each other and what kind of relationship etc. thank you for such an eloquent response ^^
:) I thought you expressed it very well.
thank u
i get it. i do. but dude...at least let sunny answer before you just leave. i'm not saying sunny is right, he isn't. but like...let him think, let him talk, instead of one-sidedly expositing your feelings and running away. you let his abusive ex get inside your head and then hurt him, instead of talking things out. again sunny does irk me at times, but he's someone who has been mentally abused and is still trying to find himself and understand himself and he does seem to actually care about him, not using him...so...TALK GDI, DON'T LEAVE.