No, I’m not going to. You came on MY comment to have an opposing opinion when you KNEW I didn’t agree with you. I don’t like rape stories, now what? Nothing. I’ll continue not liking it and the others will continue to like it, it’s life but I’m not going to stop my opinion because it hurts feelings.
You linked the heavily fetishized rape in yaoi to the inappropriate behavior you've seen at cons, correct? The way you wrote your comment, reads like you blame this inappropriateness on the heavy emphasis on rape in yaoi. So let me rephrase my response: Saying that fujoshis sexually assault people at cons because rape is fetishized in yaoi, is like saying gamers become murderers because they play first person shooters all day. Better?
@Leta Cent. I disagree, but that's because I disagree with this push for censorship. We want to pick and choose what we show in the entertainment industry, but where is the line and who decides it? I mean, if we're going down this road, you could say showing sex at all is unnecessary in literature and media. And I'm sure you can find "a ton of studies" to show that over exposure to sexual content leads to an increase in deviant behaviour. Especially when have young kids reading manga on a free access site like this... Perhaps there's also "a ton of research" that supports the rise in STDs and teen pregnancies, and the easy access to sexuallly graphic content. In that respect, perhaps we should get rid of things like yaoi and smut all together... Again, where is the line and who draws it?
Also, where is the data that proves your conjectures? Last I checked, there is no recognized study or statistical data that conclusively supports a connection between rape in literature and entertainment, and the creation of more rapists. Your opinion/perception, though poignant and valid, does not constitute fact. Also, what statistical data or valid studies do you have that support the claim "violent video games make people more violent?" I'm interested to see them, because simply stating, "there is tons of research proving such" doesn't prove it. There might be tons of research, but are they valid studies? What agencies conducted these studies? How many test subjects did they use? How long were these studies done for; and how many studies have been done since to validate those findings? I don't work in the vague, nor do I put stock in generic statements like, "tons of research." I believe none of what I hear and half of I see. And where did you read that the U.S. entertainement industry is minimizing rape, even in porn? That's an article I would love to read.
I came cause your whole comment was a mess, it wasn't 'I don't like rape'
your comment was some nonsense 'gay mangas with rape damage irl gay relationnships I'm so woke, fujos repent for your sins!' like how even....?
I wanna believe you're trolling tbh.
I just made one comment, cause I disagree, you started trying to make people that like rape appear as bad, people responded, now you're without arguments so you're just spouting whatever you can, fair. No one talked feelings, your main comment was a whole mess of nonsense. And you kept adding more nonsense to it.
Then I just kept on responding cause you kept adding words to my posts and I don't take that.
I honestly said everything I wanted on first post.
So me being a M with a rape kink is enough information to judge me?
Yes, it's kinda annoying how fujoshi fetishize gays. And I also dislike it when rape is romanticised.
But you know, you shouldn't care that much about some "fapping material".
In porn or hentai nobody cares about the missing plot.
Men also fetishize lesbians.
I hate it how some men are thinking like "Homosexuality is alright as long as it's two hot girls playing with each other"
If you care about all shit happening in the world, you would only suffer.
Enjoy the good things. Change the changeable bad things. And ignore the unchangeable bad things.
You linked heavily fetishized rape in yaoi to the inappropriateness you've seen at cons, correct? So based on your words, you blame the heavy emphasis of rape in yaoi for the inappropriateness you've seen cons. So let me rephrase my response: Saying fujoshis sexually assault people at cons because of rape in yaoi, is like saying gamers become murderers because they play first person shooters all day. Better?
Lol, I'm of the same line of thought, but I can see the value in conducting studies like that. It's better than taking an opinion and trying to make it fact. Like, the original poster said that fujoshis can't tell reality from fiction. Why? Because they saw some cosplayers sexually assault someone at a con. So now a handful of people exhibiting that behavior, translates to all fujoshis not being able to tell reality from fiction. And just for added effect, let's blame it all on rape in yaoi... *eye roll* That's one helluva leap without any substantiating data lol.
@Leta Cent: No, that's not what I said. It's just that rape as a trope happens to be used more often in omegaverse than in other aspects of BL. And the fact that not all omegaverses are like that is fine and I personally find it more than decent, but that's not how the AU was originally intended. It literally is all about the alpha having control.
I literally replied to this before- anyway I will continue not to like rape scenarios and you or whoever else will continue to so what exactly are you getting from this? You came to my comment with a different opinion to something that wasn’t a question. A hit dog will holler, you’re a little too angry for this to not be your fantasy. Rape isn’t romantic nor thrilling, it’s painful and damaging. Trust me- a asshole doesn’t selflubricate like it does it manga so you fucking rip and blood isn’t lube- it dries and crusts. So no, I can’t understand why someone would enjoy this but to each their on. I don’t like it because I’ve experienced it but it’s not affecting your life that I don’t like it so why are you going so hard?
I think it’s damaging to real gay relationships that almost every yaoi is led from rape, especially since its heavily fetishized and don’t say fujoshis can differentiate yaoi from real life because I’ve witnessed them at cons screaming at guys to kiss to bring their ship to life- most of the time they’re not even gay. I’ve had people come up to me saying I’m lucky because they wish they were gay guys.