COUGH UP!!!

I can't decide if i should leave my country to live in another country. I have a good job (a really good job especially for a 21 yr old like me) back in the PH and I also have a opportunity to stay here in Italy. That's what troubling me for the past months ㅠㅠ i don't think i can do a desk job here in italy if ever i stay here since i am a foreigner. Sad

My best friend and i started hanging out less and less with time :( we used to hang out all day before but now he just only comes for half an hour and then he goes... i thought it was for a day or two but now its been over a week and i know people are meant to be busy and stuff like that but i cant help but be kinda sad that my favorite person is slipping away and i cant do anything about it

Have you had a opportunity to sit him down and talk to him about it?
If its something subtle where he would feel like its childish to talk about, then i wouldn't have a chat, id maybe query him a bit more on whats keeping him busy.
As harsh as this sounds, maybe he just doesn't value the time he spends with you as much as you do, and perhaps he finds something about it irksome.
Is he in a relationship and is spending time with his significant other, and is struggling to find enough time for the 2 of you?
Is he sending you hints or have you identified any red flags when the 2 of you spend time together?
I don't have any idea about whats could be possibly going on, but i'd say, if its concerning enough for you to raise a flag, then follow your gut instincts, and just ask him about it?
Good luck ;)

I think its always good to evaluate the benefits and the drawbacks of situations like these. Remember this is your future on the line and its good to have a long and hard though about this.
As idiotic as this sounds, get a piece of paper and write the benefits and drawbacks of both countries and which one fulfills the most happiness to you personally.
Ask family and friends for advice and remember to listen to YOUR gut instinct because statistically there is a extremely high possibility that's its correct.
Right now, you already seem more biased to your job in the Philippines, so already think that one suits you more. As someone who currently lives in Europe, it is very competitive to find a job, and in addition it much harder for foreigners as its sad that people STILL display Xenophobia in public. So yeah...
Follow your heart, you won't go wrong. Good luck ;)

You're right. BUT, my work back in my country is stressful the only good thing abt it is it is in line with my degree, still its too stressful for me. Also, i've been away from my job since i am still waiting for my residency here. AAHHHHH.. my life is a mess rn ╥﹏╥

No i hadn’t lately since hes so busy but hed go on and off sometimes and he doesnt like to talk about that stuff so i dont have the chance even if i want to and even if i did i dont think theres something to do about it...and if he doesnt value the time he has with me he wouldve said so and stopped hanging out with me long time ago since hes harshly honest lol. And i think im the only person he hangs out with since he spended all days and nights with me before and if he was going out with a person he tells me beforehand to delay plans or something like that.. i dont know why im saying all of this but thank you for your time you had me thinking up of other possibilities i had never imagined and slowly accepting that things could change with time and nothing lasts forever thanks alot man!! ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

You're welcome. It was hard for me speak about something I didn't really know about, but I'm glad to be of help. And yes, you're right, nothing lasts forever, but I wish y'all the best and work everything out. (▰˘◡˘▰)