The Uke at chapter 4 though. I mean i can understand that he's scared of being outed but h...

Bl_pasta August 13, 2019 11:13 pm

The Uke at chapter 4 though. I mean i can understand that he's scared of being outed but he took it way too far. Calling the Seme selfish and treating the seme like shit just for being affectionate. The Uke's reasons for being mad at the Seme was also so stupid. No one would bat an eye if the uke said he 'already had plans' or if he wore some similar to the Seme. He could always just come up with an excuse or brush it off as a joke if people asked.

I honestly felt so bad for the Seme who loved the uke and went all out for him. How can they be with each other in future if the Uke is so scared to take a step forward. Poor Seme is bound to have lots of heartache just to keep up with the Uke's conditions. I honestly don't see their relationship lasting too long. For once i am thankful that they're just fictional characters. I'd hate to see someone get treated like how the uke treats the seme.

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    Mameiha September 28, 2019 7:27 am

    I have a few friends who, when they were younger, had some very bad experiences with prejudice and felt the same need to hide their sexuality and relationships. For people in that position, having understanding and supportive friends that allow them to be themselves without judgement or censure is so very important. Once they experience the freedom of being themselves they gain confidence that they are fine just the way they are. It can be terribly scary to open yourself up to others when you have been convinced that who you are as a person is wrong and shameful. As I helped and supported those friends through their experiences, I learned a lot from them. Primarily that, unless you are intentionally hurting yourself or others with your words or actions, you should never be ashamed of who you are.

    mirai19 October 30, 2020 12:49 pm

    Same thought. I was kinda annoyed while reading.
    I wanted to post a rant to but thank you for posting already.