
Nope. Try again. No one said abusers aren't redeemable. He needs to seek professional help. If you think hiding the truth from someone makes them a better person, then you're living in a perverted fantasy.
If you love someone and want to be better, I say no secrets. If you love and trust someone, why should you hide the truth? If neither party can express themselves without lying, then obviously the relationship isn't going to be entirely positive. It's toxic.
People think, "Oh, if they really love each other, they should help each other to become better people". But that's not how reality works. Its not anyone's responsibility to change someone or help them get better physically and mentally. Sure they can be alongside, but with PROFESSIONAL help. People are prone to manipulation and abuse in situations like this.

You still don't get it. Hiding the truth does not mean you're trying and just because he's holding himself back does not give him a free pass.
He's still being manipulative, regardless.
Denying someone from knowing the truth with something that involves them, is a major red card. He may "love" him and try to paint himself in a good light, but he's already shown his true colors. No matter how much the truth hurts in a relationship, its all about trust and communication between both parties.

Awww sweetie,
are you romanticizing and infantilizing abusers again in your free time?? While simultaneously ignoring the effects of the abuse on MC? You seem to have forgotten that his mind literally erased Minyul for the sake of his mental health. Oh oh!!! Silly me, I almost forgot. Let's not forget the time he and his brother tried to orchestrate murder! Maybe you should read it again in order to catch up and comprehend? ~(⌒▽⌒)~

I said he deserves a chance to redeem himself and work on himself and honestly ur not even trying to understand my comment u just think im excusing abusive behaviour. No all i said is he is working on it and knows that what he did was fucked up. If you can't understand that then just stfu and stop giving me notifications while repeating the same shit over and over
Just because minyul had a tragic back story doesn't mean he should get MC. He would constantly mess with MC's head and feelings all for the sake of his own comfort. Romanticizing his behavior is UGLY(▰˘◡˘▰)