I basically get what Maru is feeling. Even though they say "love wins all" it still bothers me that my partner did everything with everyone before me. My boyfriend used to go to parties and experienced wild sex here and there compared to me who only knew casual sex before him. He taught me a lot of plays and it was fun, but remembering the reason why he knows these plays was because he had done it with someone else somewhat irritated and upsets me. I still love him very much and he loves me, but I also can't help but feel insecure that I might not be as good as his previous partners. It's a momentary insecurity and I don't think about it that often, but it happens.
I basically get what Maru is feeling. Even though they say "love wins all" it still bothers me that my partner did everything with everyone before me. My boyfriend used to go to parties and experienced wild sex here and there compared to me who only knew casual sex before him. He taught me a lot of plays and it was fun, but remembering the reason why he knows these plays was because he had done it with someone else somewhat irritated and upsets me. I still love him very much and he loves me, but I also can't help but feel insecure that I might not be as good as his previous partners. It's a momentary insecurity and I don't think about it that often, but it happens.