Why are y’all hating on shizuka??? He hasn’t even cheated. Yall wanna know why shu dou...

Why do you think he doesn't trust him. （￣へ￣）

Actions. Emotions. Feels.

You'll learn when you get older. He chooses to work for a man his partner hates. Knowing this guy is attracted to him. Even goes to live with him when he's being called a cheater. The guy even hinted that their sleeping together. Still he stays close to him. In a relationship you can't feed mistrust and expect to be trusted.

Im not sure you understand i was mainly talking about the comments but go awf ig

The way you typed that comment it didn't see like you were talking about the comments. Not to mention you said it's fine for him to act nonchalant some times. He does it basically all the time. Even with the way Rji or whatever his butt name was kissed him. But it's not like I dislike the uke, his character is really good, just not towards the seme (︶︿︶)＝凸

i agree. When Shuu confronts Shizuka about the other guy knowing about a birthmark on his butt, the first thing he does is run to stay in the other guys house. This entire manga he created all the mistrust by getting so close to the other guy. im shocked that people are defending his behavior. I doubt shizuka would be so understanding if shuu moved in with another man/woman and was spending all his free time with someone that had feelings for him.

But i also said why YALL hating on him. Being nonchalant isnt bad. Its just a personality trait. Him being nonchalant is normal for HIM. Saying him being nonchalant (not you specifically) is bad is just like telling someone who has a no emotion to feel :/

i dont think you understand why people are upset. its not that he is nonchalant. read all the comments above again. people are upset because of the way he disrespected his relationship. all the issues and insecurities started because of him. he may not have cheated, but he acted in a way that made his partner doubt him. if you had a bf/gf and they decided to spend all their free time with someone that is attracted to them. you would be ok with that? what if you get into a fight, and they and immediately move in with that person? whether or not your partner cheated physically, they are disrespecting your relationship.

I wouldnt feel a thing bc i trust them. That’s showing insecurity if you don’t trust your partner and it wasnt a real relationship in the first place. If you knew the person was interested then talk to your partner. Inflict communication toward your partner. Simple. If they dont wanna hear what you’re saying and take time to fully comprehend then thats not the right person

it is showing insecurity. thats what the uke was doing through the entire manga. making him feel insecure with how he acted. you might say you would trust your partner. but but the truth is you dont know how you react to seeing your partner spending all their time with someone that is trying to take them away, and trying to get into your relationship. plus, everyone reacts differently doesnt make someone a bad person to be insecure. especially when Shu kept telling him his fears and he ignored him.

Honestly, I doubt that's true. Don't take this as an argument or anything. You may be an actual nice person idk. I'm just trying to get you to understand why some people are hating on the uke. Let's say you had a little sister and your father was abusive. (This may not be a good example but-) Would you be okay with letting your sister stay with your father? I doubt you would. Now the seme was told to his face by Rji that he wants to steal the uke away. He was already insecure from the uke's past behaviour so Rji knowing about the birthmarks and the little guy telling his dad that he gave him a cat greeting just made him unsure and uneasy about it all

Did the uke ever once tried to make him feel better or deny it at least once?

No he didn’t. However, i would communicate that to my partner. I still stand by what i said. If you cant trust your partner then dont be with them. If your partner has broken your trust already then leave. Simple. No one is forcing him to stay. Fighting over someone is trivial. The uke wasnt communicated with properly. Its honestly childish. You cant expect people to instantly get what you mean if you don’t communicate it well. Sorry thats not how the brain works fam. Comparing an abusing father and a victim sibling isnt a Good analogy but i see what you mean. However i have to debunk the argument. I would personally not let my siblings be in that. Tbh id take them to a safe place. There will be no question about it. Comparing this relationship to that type of thing is kinda odd. Going back to the manga If nothing is communicated throughout anything then there will be no progress in the relationship at all. Honestly, if i was in this relationship and my partner and I couldn’t trust each other. Id take a breather and better myself as a person. I would TALK to my partner and tell them that what is happening isnt right and we can either work on it together or break up and work separately. And if they come to like someone else then id be okay bc id recognize my faults in the relationship as well. No relationship is perfect but when you cant trust you S/O its kinda unhealthy dude. Since the seme was told that he shouldve relayed the message to the uke and told him how he felt. Im not trying to argue but this relationship is really unhealthy with the lack of trust.

Then leave. If your partner isnt listening. Then do the simplest thing. L e a v e. No one deserves to be ignored. However, there are times in manga where the uke does it bc he wants the seme to feel anxious like he did. There is everything wrong about this relationship but that’s another thing for another time.

Not being rude but it seems like you've never actually been in love with someone.

I have tho

"In a relationship you can't feed mistrust and expect to be trusted" today's best quotation, although I like Shizuka (and Shu as well)

The reason why there is no trust is because Shizuoka like to play around with the seme feelings, always testing him and purposely making him jealous... he teased the seme since young and continues to do it. And not once does he say I love you he beats around the bush because he find it fun seeing the seme all stressed. That’s why there is no trust