Someone asks you out

Grital August 2, 2019 8:07 pm

I’ve just spent two weeks with my friend and her family on holiday. At the end of the two weeks her brother asks me out on a date saying he likes me.

I’m just not really sure what to do or think right now because though I don’t NOT like him and I did think he was cute beforehand I just don’t think the connection is there right now. I’ve dated before but I’m turning 17 this year so this relationship would be a lot more serious.

I’ve agreed to meet up and we’ve planned to go to the cinemas together but I guess my main problem is how could you decide and be so certain you like someone in just a couple weeks? We knew each other before but only briefly and I’m not sure if I should just turn him down or wait a while to see if any feeling develop, isn’t that just stringing him along though?

And of course I don’t think he knows about my addiction to manga and anime so maybe his thoughts will change after he finds out ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

Responses
    YaoiManiak August 2, 2019 8:26 pm

    I apologize in advance for my bad English, but try to understand me.

    Just tell him that you never thought about him in that way.
    It also depends on it if you even want to give it chance. Perhaps you'd later realize that you might not feel so bad to be with him ( i mean like spending time with him). It's his choice if he'll be patient and give you time to change your mind and try to put some feelings into it. And if it seems impossible to you then unfortunately it will be one-sided love for him. Yk you won't affect love...Just give it some time :)

    Cupcake.. August 2, 2019 8:29 pm

    Try to spend some time with him, I'm not saying to become lovers now..
    Once u get to know each other..
    Your feelings will also become clear..
    I mean.. May be , he's the one..?? Who knows
    Just give it a try.. Gud luck

    silversky August 2, 2019 9:18 pm

    if you want to meet up w him then go for it, get to know eachother and see how u feel is what id say. he might just be feeling this way bc he spent 2 whole weeks w u or he might like u even more after going on a couple dates, u just gotta see where it goes

    kateyuni August 2, 2019 10:51 pm

    if nothing works out i'll date either one of you

    Grital August 3, 2019 9:22 am
    I apologize in advance for my bad English, but try to understand me.Just tell him that you never thought about him in that way.It also depends on it if you even want to give it chance. Perhaps you'd later reali... YaoiManiak

    No need to apologise, your English was fine. I think I do want to give him a chance but I’m not sure if that’s because of attraction or because I feel like I want a boyfriend. Thanks for the advice

    Grital August 3, 2019 9:26 am
    Try to spend some time with him, I'm not saying to become lovers now..Once u get to know each other..Your feelings will also become clear..I mean.. May be , he's the one..?? Who knowsJust give it a try.. Gud lu... Cupcake..

    Thanks, I hope they do, currently I’m getting a lift with him into the cinemas so hopefully it won’t be a tense 40 minutes and I’ll get to know him a bit better (≧∀≦)

    Grital August 3, 2019 9:27 am
    if nothing works out i'll date either one of you kateyuni

    Thank you (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ I’ll pass your message onto him (≧∀≦)

    Grital August 3, 2019 9:29 am
    if you want to meet up w him then go for it, get to know eachother and see how u feel is what id say. he might just be feeling this way bc he spent 2 whole weeks w u or he might like u even more after going on ... silversky

    I think this is my biggest worry actually, that I end up developing feelings but his end up being not what he thought, I don’t like making decisions that give me regrets

    silversky August 3, 2019 11:57 am
    I think this is my biggest worry actually, that I end up developing feelings but his end up being not what he thought, I don’t like making decisions that give me regrets Grital

    ah that's actually understandable, I'm sorry I didnt look at it that was as well

    Grital August 3, 2019 7:06 pm
    ah that's actually understandable, I'm sorry I didnt look at it that was as well silversky

    No need to be sorry and you were right so thanks for the advice xx