
Hate is a strong word. Unforgiving is nearly twin to hate. It is a seed that brings fruit to bitterness and pain. It's understandable to hate the deed. But to be unforgiving without understanding the situation hinders a human heart and soul to mature.
I really like Jaerim (Never Understand) - for his strength in character, his steadfastness and his integrity. He has the capacity to love, and was loved back. People considered him ugly - but those who are attracted to him know he has a beautiful heart and soul. Ayeon saw this, but did not understand it because of Soyeon 's bad influence. Only after he cut ties with her was he able to live and think for himself - and realized he owed Jaerim an apology. Whether he would be forgiven or not, He owed it to Jaerim. He was able to find love, and understood it was precious, and it allowed him to change for the better.
Egads... I love seeing Jaerim again (saying Aeyon's atonement is to be happy and take good care of his lover is so Jaerim!). And Yuri is still so overprotective of him!

Hate the deed. Punishment should be given due to the deed, hate should not factor in that. Revenge is different from due punishment. Revenge breeds a vicious cycle. Punishment is weighed by the the wrong-doer's sincere remorse and atonement.
Jaerim understood this, that's why he had mention previously in NU that he didn't think he'd be able to forgive - that was the depth of his hurt. But he did forgive Aeyon, but in atonement, he had to treat another person with care for the rest of their life.

I agree. It was up to Jaerim if he'd forgive or not, since he was the victim.
It was refreshing to see in this manhwa that a victim expressed their pain ( unsure abt being able to forgive). Yet Jaerim, being who he is, was able to forgive Aeyon after he showed remorse. Time did pass - perhaps during this time with Yuri by his side, Jaerim healed from the trauma and was able to get the whole picture ( soyeon's involvement, etc).
Is it that guy from Never Understand? The guy who sexually assaulted the mc (the ugly guy) under a girl's orders? In the last few chapters of the Never Understand? Oh fuck no, he doesn't deserve happiness.