A bit wrecked

Um, he does cry a lot in it about those reasons. Just because it started off sexually without the whole crying about the fact he was with someone else, doesn't mean it's not love. The true feelings and actions can come later, which they did.

"I would be okay with dying if I did it with Hotaru once"

That, my love, is not love.

I think love is about sexual desires, then why do we do it with our partner? If what you're saying is true that means it's okay to do it with our family? Because you said love isn't lust, for me the ones I love and don't have sexual desire towards them are my family and friends, and the person I love is the one I have sexual desire toward him, this is the truth, and all the fujoshi think this way, because in yaoi Mangas always the couple start expressing their feeling with sex, and when the partner don't make a move, they will star doubting if that partner really loves him. Don't you think so? I hope you understand me, as I sad before if love isn't about sexual things it means it's okay to do it with your friends and family? That's the meaning of what you were saying, and I explained my thoughts to you I hope you understand me

Creators, I told you to stop making people confused!! See what you've done?!?

No, seriously, that is wrecked. Lust and love are not the same thing at all. Romantical love usually comes with lust, but they are not the same.
At.
All.
And if you love someone and meet them having sex with another person, what is going to take the lead is love (unless he or she is your partner and you like those kind of things). Because your love is going to feel shred to pieces thinking it is never going to get fulfilled. In comics the creators are just making the story the way they think it will get better sales, and then people who read it think it is normal and their heads get fucked up.
And I am talking about sex, relationships, friedships, self-concept, reactions to conflicts, objectives in life or the way people see the world in general. People are really getting stress, too high expectations, depressions, problems dealing with relationships and much more (partly) because creators don't understand the responsibility they have.
And your biased way of seeing love and sex is just prove of it.

Then can you describe what love is? Seems like you're a pro and i'd like to hear your opinion about love

I am certailnly not a pro in love, but I am good at understanding people's emotions, and specially in analizing them in stories (I have honestly worked in that field).
But I can tell you that if you want a definition of love you are already taking it wrong, because there can't be just a definition, if there are 7.300 millions of people in the world there are 7.300 billions of definitions.
And none of them includes love as getting hard when you see other person having sex.

And I oop-

Well that's the point, now you know that love can't be described (≧∀≦) and you said that different people have different kind of love，and it applies for the uke too :). Well from my pov the uke already loves the seme since he was a child but he didnt realized that until he saw the bj scene lol. The bj scene triggered him and make him realized that he is in love with the seme. Uhm maybe we have different kind of pov, but anyway thankyou for replying (▰˘◡˘▰)

What do you mean "now you know", as if you had taught me something? (⊙…⊙ )

Lol

Hmmm you didnt get my gist lol. Your comments are contradicting. You said it is up to them how to interpret lOvE but you judge them how to lOvE (⊙…⊙ )

But it's not 'lOvE' they are interpreting

I think you are the one who didn't read my comment till the end.

Sorry, I meant "her" comment

If I'm a guy I'll get hard, well... I'll get horney too if I saw my best friend doing it with her bf.... Well, I know I'm not a normal person lol... For me, I can do it with anyone in this world women, men, kids, older then me, old men, old women, but fat men I can't.... I like being a top and I like being a bottom too, I'm a sadist and I'm a masochist too.... I enjoy every single thing with every type,
Please don't laugh ^_^ I don't know what love means, I thinks it's to find that a person is being cute or handsome and you can't hold back ... * deep with my thoughts '' was I born as a slut '' <<< I'm still a virgin lolololol>>>
But my mind is a slut..... So who are talking about love '' ' im really sorry I can't understand... I Thought when I was a teenager that love is about feeling and caring and not about s-desires... But know I think if I find myself thinking about someone is cute or handsome, i' ll take care of them too, and spoil them to see their cute side more.... But I'll get tired of them at the end..... And I want them to belong only to me even if I got tired of them..... I know I'm a weirdo... I don't even know what these thoughts are like.... I'm really confused....

You seem like a pansexual with very little romantical love (at least for the moment, it can always change). Your sexual desire seems to be swallowing a little your other emotions.
If you are confortable with it then it is fine, nothing to worry about, if you are not comfortable or hurt other people maybe you could try asking a doctor (could be hormonal) or a psychologyst.

I'm confortable with it, thank you (≧∀≦)