I agree with you a lot! I think the same, especially because in a lot of yaoi manga, after the characters revile the background stories they have sex as nothing happened, which annoys me a lot.
But, c' mon, it's yaoi. Of course, they gonna have sex after the rape, what are they gonna do? Make a normal and emotional conversation so that the bottom would trust more to the doctor and so the doctor would know more of the personality of the uke and could comfort him?
What are they gonna do? Really? You act like having a normal conversation after being raped is such a bad thing. I think they should have a conversation like that, because if they continue the way they’re going, there are bound to be some really big problems. Mentally and emotionally. I know it’s yaoi but this relates to the actual real world, things like this happen. All I did was say the truth of things that people always tend to overlook because it’s never happened to them before, so they think nothing of it. Having a deep and normal / emotional conversation would help the uke so much. He needs to actually trust someone that could ground him and prevent him from falling into a depressed state.
I don’t think having sex with someone after they’ve been continuously raped is a good idea. Right now they need comfort, even if you don’t think they do, they do. They need to have someone that can ground them and provide a safe environment. I know a lot of rape victims might use sex as a way to cope with how they were mistreated sexually, but it’s not good for them mentally. Sex isn’t everything.