There's nothing wrong with an effeminate man. If he identifies as a guy even when he has feminine qualities, let the guy be. Calling him a "weak cheesy half man" as if being effeminate is a bad thing... People who think that way usually have internalized misogyny. I can respect your preference of wanting a manly man but you don't have to be a dick about it.
Firstly, you're very evil. That person lost his mother, and on top of that, was fucking RAPED by his father, do you understand the emotional impact it would have on a person? I guess you don't, given you only know the stereotypical man who are 'strong' whatever happens to them. He lost his everything and his reason, I would like to see you in his shoes, let's see what YOU would have done.
i would call the uke a woman with a dic but damn even woman r more manly than him even woman r stron figh for their families nd themselves his character is shii so disapointed at these mangakas for gods sake if wanted to read something like this we woulkd choose shojo i want something two men not this weak cheesy half man