clearly the people who disliked my comment are those exact people who fetishize this shit
I don`t read mangas where rape turns into love anymore. It is disgusting. I know the psychology behind this as a student and I also know where this fantasy comes from looking at it from a cultural side. In asia it is still not seen as that wrong when the husband forces himself onto his wife. I know this from turkey as well. Although officially it is a crime, people shut up about it and in traditional families give the vibe as if the wife is (like in the past) owned by the husband. Like an object. Rape is rape. It is violence. The only reason why people can read this and like this is because i mangas they make it look sexy. As if, although it is forced, the uke/bottom/women enjoys it. And that is what is so horrible. The most horrible part of being rape for a victim is, that although they don`t want it and are absolutely against it and repulsed by it, their body reacts against their will. Humans are able to saparate mind from body. Even though both are connected and unsaparable. The body reacts to stimuli. So no matter how much the mind refuses, the body will react if it is stimulated in the right way....and that is what in reality breaks the mind of the victim. That is why mand victims don`t find or even ask for justice. Because they blame themselves, are ashamed of it and the rapist gets away. May be goes on raping their partner or becomes a serial rapist or whatever.....this stuff is seriously just horrible....i like sex, i love yaoi and rough sex is hot as hell, but only if it is consensual. even if it is a fantasy. people should be aware of reality. yes, writing is an expression without boundaries. and people have fantasies about rape. but that is more like, in reality, they want to be roughed up by surprise by someone they find attractive sexually and are not actually scared of. this stuff is so upsetting....
This!! I completely agree with what you are saying. Theres a difference between rape and rough sex. Too many readers see it as only a story and I sometimes wonder what their outlook on rape is in real life if they condone it within reading. Mangakas still have a long way to go with these primitive story conventions.
I think it also comes from a lack of knowledge and experience. Sometimes I read mangas that seem like they were obviously created by a female that may be never had anal sex, bad anal sex or no sex at all. Or may be just missionary what ever, just not good experience. No matter if female or male anal is super extremely painful if you do it without preparation. I think you could not even easily enter a virgin or abstinent person at all like they show in mangas....especially without lubrication....bruh that shit must hurt like hell and the top would not be able to really move much....and they show it as if it is super enjoyable...like duh...not at all possible....not in this world haha....and obviously they do not understand that what they often show is clear rape and not rough sex....i guess that is why people here say they like it.....urgh so annoying
People justifying rape within stories because "it's completely different from real life and just a story" are dumbasses. I've read a few rape stories and I don't condone the way mangakas romanticise and normalise rape like this manga but there have been a few mangakas who have been able to turn the story around and address the rape as a problem and have the seme apologise for it (i.e Hidoku Shinaide). it doesn't make it any better but at least it has been acknowledged unlike some stories like this which have the uke under stockholm syndrome. I've only read the first few chapters of this manga and it's just demeaning the way the seme uses the uke and how the uke is presented as a weak-willed submissive to the seme. This the typa story to make some of yall think love is having a man push you up on a wall against your will.