I don't think there's going to be an actual story that's incredibly similar to this one but here are mangas with questionable lovers and a guy picking the better choice:
Also has a guy with an abusive bf + a friend, apparently a more painful ver of this manga according to another reader.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ano_hi_no_kimi_wo_dakishimeta_nara/
Uke had a string of abusive lovers, settles with a good guy:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kore_wa_kitto_yume_no_naka_no_kiss/
Not physically violent, more like neglectful and uses him at convenience according to uke, but not enough screen time of the initial bf to even see it happening. Seme's a pure bean though, real cute.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/suki_kamo/
Please... anyone... any other story like this.... (/TДT)/ I need more...