Slightly annoyed with Sangho

Well, I do believe Sangho is jumping to conclusions... But that doesn't mean he is all that wrong. Yes, Hakdo already told him he likes him... But that can be nothing compared to the feelings he have for Doochi. That's the point! Although he has a thing with Sangho, his feelings for the other guy are obviously more intense and that's heartbreaking for someone who's already been tossed around.

Hakdo can be sincere but the issue isn't that. The thing Sangho is complaining is that he again doesn't feel #1 in any aspect in the other guys heart. And he SAW Hakdo's reaction, so it isn't all that a misunderstanding for him.

Yes, it could be just his insecurities, but he emotionally isn't in position to be stronger than his partner. And that is why he's saying he is sad... Because he knew this all along and again choose someone who isn't 100% into him. In this case, Hakdo has feelings for someone else and with his ex, he clearly stated that Sangho was just a fling.

If he was strong enough he'll be able to say "I'll wait" but someone who needs reaffirmation like that... Just can't wait that much.

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I totally agree. Sangho knew, yes, but understand with the head is not understand with the heart.
He knew but he hope deep in himself that he was wrong. And this hope was shattered.

But we don't really know much about Hakdo's feelings. That's the problem. Everybody always assumes that Hakdo only has feelings for Doochi, but nobody has ever asked him how he feels about Doochi and Sangho right now.
Throughout the entire story, people constantly made wrong assumptions about Hakdo's feelings and for once I'd like to know what Hakdo actually feels, not what other people think he feels.
Just because he was obsessed with Doochi in the past doesn't mean that he doesn't like Sangho right now.
Because right now Sangho assumes that Hakdo doesn't like him just because he was sad about Doochi leaving the country.
I'm not saying that Sangho can't be sad but I'm getting a little bit tired of Sangho constantly dismissing Hakdo's feelings because of assumptions he made without talking to Hakdo. Because whenever he actually talked to him it turned out that Hakdo is a lot more serious about them than Sangho had assumed.
Just imagine we saw that story from Hakdo's perspective. A guy slowly falling in love with someone new despite being obsessed with someone he knew he had no chance with for a long time and when he finally decides that it's time to let go of that guy the new love suddenly jumps to the conclusion that he doesn't like him just because his sad that his old love is leaving the country.

But it's not just about Hakdo having feelings for Doochi, it's that Sangho now assumes that Hakdo doesn't like him because he jumped to conclusions on his own without giving Hakdo the chance to explain himself.

No he doesn't, he did tell his brother that he was not dumped. He's just heartbroken

He told his brother that he swore to himself that he would only like someone who also likes him (not someone who loves him as much as he does) but that he has fallen for the wrong person again. Whether he was dumped or not has nothing to do with that.
Right now he doesn't believe that Hakdo likes him.

There seems to be a misunderstanding here. If this chapter had been about Sangho realizing that he has a problem with the fact that Hakdo has feelings for Doochi than I would've had no problem with the way Sangho acted.
But that's not what this was about. Throughout the entire second season it was made very clear that Sangho doesn't have much of a problem with Hakdo having feelings for Doochi. He simply wants someone who likes him as well. He doesn't want the love to be one-sided like it was with his ex. He isn't sad because Hakdo has feelings for Doochi, he is sad because he thinks Hakdo has no feelings for him. He believes he has fallen for a guy who doesn't like him again. And that means that he simply assumed that Hakdo doesn't like him (hence why he was so sure that Hakdo didn't understand what he meant when he told him that he liked him) without even talking to him. And that's what annoys me.
He should give Hakdo the chance to explain his feelings. He shouldn't constantly decide on his own how Hakdo feels about him.

That doesn't change the fact that he should talk to Hakdo first before jumping to conclusions. Again, that's the problem I have with Sangho's behavior.

He already decided to let go of Doochi. There's nothing to sort out anymore.
And Sangho assuming that Hakdo has no feelings for him because he was sad is the same as jumping to conclusions. There was no obvious atmosphere to read. He saw that Hakdo was sad because of Doochi and thought this means that he doesn't like him. That's far beyond reading the atmosphere. Reading the atmosphere would be knowing that Hakdo is sad.

I'd also like to ad that this is something Sangho does all the time, hence why it's starting to annoy me. He did it when he assumed that Hakdo lost interest in him although Hakdo actually just didn't want to bother him as much with his learning anymore. He did it when he decided that Hakdo didn't understand what "I like you" means. He also knows almost nothing about Hakdo's feelings for Doochi from Hakdo himself. He either made his own assumptions or heard it from his sister.

I absolutely agree

I understand where shango is coming from because insecurities lies deep insecurities not just making him question Hakdo it’s making him question himself this ain’t something everyone understands He isn’t jumping to conclusions

I think I would do the same as Sangho. Sometimes you might be afraid to ask your lover's feelings, especially when you feel insecure in a relationship. You are afraid to heard a disppointing answer. Sometimes you can't be too confident when you really fall in love with someone. Sangho might be wrong that he did not ask Hakdo directly. But Hakdo also just kept in sadness and silence about his friend's leave. He didn't realize Sangho's insecurity nor comforted Sangho by a few words. But I want to say, though this chapter made me so sad, I love both of the characters and how they reacted. They will talk to each other and solve the problem later.

I think I would do the same as Sangho. Sometimes you might be too afraid to ask your lover's feelings, especially when you feel insecure in a relationship. You are afraid to heard a disppointing answer. Sometimes you can't be too confident when you really fall in love with someone. Sangho might be wrong that he did not ask Hakdo directly. But Hakdo also just kept in sadness and silence about his friend's leave. He didn't realize Sangho's insecurity nor comforted Sangho by a few words. But I want to say, though this chapter made me so sad, I love both of the characters and how they reacted. They will talk to each other and solve the problem later.

I absolutely agree that Hakdo's often too oblivious when it comes to Sangho's feelings and that he should be a little bit more vocal about his own feelings when he's in a relationship. There have been many scenes in which Sangho was obviously insecure and Hakdo didn't recognize it at all.
Anyways, with only 8 chapters left their problems should be solved pretty soon.

Jumping to conclusions simply means that you judge something without knowing all the facts. That's exactly what Sangho does. Otherwise it'd mean that Hakdo actually doesn't like Sangho.

You obviously don’t understand he isn’t jumping into conclusions he is insecure and probably dealing with some self esteem issues from the last relationship and when you are battling does type of things your emotions cause you to doubt yourself not the other person I’m speaking from experience because I’m steal dealing with it myself those type of feelings can make you negative and put you in a dark place

This may sound mean but to be honest I’m hoping that shango doesn’t end up with Hakdo it’s nothing on him personally but shango May have to deal with some of insecurities first before he makes everything worse

The motivation behind why somebody's jumping to conclusions doesn't matter. Even when you're insecure and have self esteem issues (I'm aware that he's insecure hence why I mentioned it in my opening post) you can still jump to conclusions.
I can see that English isn't your first language so I'm guessing the reason why we talk at cross purpose might be because of the language barrier.
I know what you want to say but that has nothing to do with jumping to conclusions.

I don't think it's that bad. He definitely has to work on it to not damage their relationship but he's already improved since the beginning of the story (remember when he still did things because of his ex? His over that now and became more confident) and I think with the right support (maybe his brother) and considering that Hakdo is pretty straightforward and wouldn't just give up on Sangho like that he should be able to overcome his self esteem issues or at least become confident enough to not assume the worst all the time.